假如

婀婷儿

诗名：《假如》
这是吉卜林写给他12岁的儿子的一首诗，告诫儿子如何才能经受住人生旅途中可能遇到的种种精神上考验的勉励诗，这首诗放在当代依然很有力量， 尤其在承受种种心理压力时，如果能够去细细体会和领悟这首诗的深刻内涵，我们一定能从中受到鼓舞。

If
假如
Rudyard kipling
拉迪亚德·吉卜林
If you can keep your head when all about you
假如你能保持冷静，即使众人
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
都失去理智并且归咎于你，
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
假如你能保持自信，即使众人
But make allowance for their doubting too;
都怀疑你，让所有的怀疑动摇；
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
假如你能等待而不因此厌烦，
Or, being lied about,don't deal in lies,
别人骗你，不要因此骗人，
Or, being hated, don't give way to hating,
别人憎恨你，也不去憎恨别人，
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
不要太乐观，不要自以为是；
If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
假如你能寻梦——而不为梦想主宰；
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
假如你能思考——而不以思索为目标；
If you can meet with triumph and disaster
假如你能面对成败祸福
And treat those two impostors just the same;
而同样视之如骗徒；
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
假如你听到你的老实话被小人歪曲
Twiseted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
去蒙骗愚蠢之辈而尚能心平气和，
Or watch the things you gave your life to broken,
或者见到你毕生的亊业被毀，
And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;
而尚能执起破旧的工具去着手重建；
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
如果在你赢得无数桂冠之后，
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
然后孤注一掷再搏一次，
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
失败过后，东山再起，
And never breathe a word about your loss;
不要抱怨你的失败；
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
假如你能驱使你的心力和精神
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
在别人走后，长久地坚守阵地，
And so hold on when there is nothin in you
让你抓牢，尽管你里面己掏空了
Except the Will which says to them:"Hold on!";
只有意志告诉它们“坚持！”
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
假如你能与市井之徒交谈而不失于礼，
Or walk with Kings -nor lose the common touch;
出入于贵胄之家而不忘苍生黎民，
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
假如你能尊重人人而不膜拜何人，
If all men count with you, but none too much;
既不受制于仇敌亦不受制于亲朋；
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
假如你能以六十秒长跑去填满
With sixty second' worth of distance run -
不可饶恕的一分钟
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
这个世界的一切都是你的，
And - which is more - you'll be a Man my son!
更重要的是——孩子——你是个顶天立地的人！

生词带读

If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
假如你能保持自信，即使众人
But make allowance for their doubting too;

allowance: [ə'laʊəns] 津贴，限额， 容许量
make allowance for 留有余地， 体谅人，宽待别人
We all should learn to make allowance for others.
我们都应该学着体谅人。


If you can meet with triumph and disaster
假如你能面对成败祸福
And treat those two impostors just the same;
而同样视之如骗徒；
triumph： ['traɪʌmf] n. 胜利， 凯旋
disaster：[dɪ'zæstɚ] n. 灾难， 不幸
impostor：[ɪm'pɑstɚ] n. 骗子，冒充者


And stoop and build 'em up with wornout tools;
而尚能执起破旧的工具去着手重建；
　　wornout ['wɔrnaʊt]] 穿旧的， 磨损的
worn out 破旧不堪的， 疲惫不堪的，陈腐的
The shoes are worn out. Just throw them away.
这双鞋破旧不堪了， 把他们扔
You look worn out. 你看起来很疲惫。


And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
然后孤注一掷再搏一次，
pitch-and-toss ['pɪtʃən'tɔs] 抛硬币


口语讲解
Hold on!
1. 别挂电话
Hold on! Lemme write the phone numbers down.
别挂电话， 我把电话号码写下来。
2. 等一下
后面经常加 for a second/for a minute
Hold on for a second. I can't catch you.
等一下， 我赶不上你。
3. 耐心点
Just hold on. It will work out.
耐心点，一切都会好的。
please hold on! It takes time to do it well.
请耐心点， 把它做好是需要花时间的。

都怀疑你，并认为他们的猜忌情有可原；