30了,古话有云,三十而立,字面意思都明白要像个成年人一样承担责任了。上有老下有小,自己也算是一家之主了。然而真正意识到这句话分量却也是最近,略尝甘苦。
回想前半生,天高任我飞,海阔随我游,潇洒不谙世事,活得自由自在,感恩一路相随相伴亲朋好友,全盘接受我的好与坏!对此,目前我没任何遗憾,内心充满的是感激和爱。你们陪我几十年慢慢长大,现在你们老了,让我伴随你们渐渐老去!
付出与回报都是两厢情愿,这份契约应该是心照不宣,这样才能平和美好,用大爱爱大家,才能持久,一旦把生养放在桌面上聊,就显得寡情薄味。我们不应该只享受付出而不愿意承担责任!大体生活就是这样,家里人没有谁对谁错,只是谁多一点谁少一点而已。
思想受过煎熬,就对一些熟悉的道理,有了更深刻认识,而不是片面的理解!做人做事讲原则懂界限,才能轻松自在,受人欢喜。
这些道理我正在明白并且默默努力坚守,共勉于大家。
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回想前半生,天高任我飞,海阔随我游,潇洒不谙世事,活得自由自在,感恩一路相随相伴亲朋好友,全盘接受我的好与坏!对此,目前我没任何遗憾,内心充满的是感激和爱。你们陪我几十年慢慢长大,现在你们老了,让我伴随你们渐渐老去!
付出与回报都是两厢情愿,这份契约应该是心照不宣,这样才能平和美好,用大爱爱大家,才能持久,一旦把生养放在桌面上聊,就显得寡情薄味。我们不应该只享受付出而不愿意承担责任!大体生活就是这样,家里人没有谁对谁错,只是谁多一点谁少一点而已。
思想受过煎熬,就对一些熟悉的道理,有了更深刻认识,而不是片面的理解!做人做事讲原则懂界限,才能轻松自在,受人欢喜。
这些道理我正在明白并且默默努力坚守,共勉于大家。
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