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在中年,青涩的生命之果变得如此丰满,喧闹的青春冲撞沉淀成了雍容华贵,连繁重的社会责任也有可能溶解为日常的生活情态。
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天天期待着上级的指示、群众的意见、家人的说法,然后才能跨出每一步——这是尚未精神断奶的标志。
最可怕的是,谁也没有断奶,而社会上又没有那么多上好的乳汁,因此开始了对各种伪劣饮料的集体吮吸。
在一片响亮而整齐的吮吸声上面,是那些爬满皱纹却还未苍老的脸。
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如今天天节衣缩食、不苟言笑、忍气吞声,都是在争取着一个有尊严、有资财、有自由的老年。
但是,我们无数次看到了,一个窝囊的中年抵达不到一个欢快的老年。这正像江河,一个浑浊的上段不可能带来一个清澈的下段。
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只有在中年树起独立的桅杆,扬起高高的白帆,唱出响亮的歌声,才会有好风为你鼓劲,群鸥为你引路,找到一个个都在欢迎你的安静港湾,供你细细选择。
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在中年人眼前,大批的对峙消解了,早年的对手失踪了,昨天的敌人无恨了,更多的是把老老少少各色人等照顾在自己身边。
请不要小看这\"照顾\"二字,中年人的魅力至少有一半与此相关。
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明明一个大男人却不能对任何稍稍大一点的问题作出决定,频频找领导倾诉衷肠,出了什么事情又逃得远远的,不敢负一点责任。
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哲理产生在两种相反力量的周旋之中,因此它更垂青于中年。世上一切杰出的哲学家都在中年完成了他们的思想体系,便是证据。
老年是如诗的年岁。这种说法不是为了奉承长辈。
中年太实际、太繁忙,在整体上算不得诗。青年时代常常被诗化,但青年时代的诗太多激情而缺少意境,按我的标准,缺少意境就算不得好诗。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvNTk0NjBmMGQzMGM3NGNmNWIwNmE0OGViY2VjODk3MDhfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":400,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/84a2cf24a4f84438a71369098d2ed7eb__jpg.heic","img_width":640,"text":"只有到了老年,沉重的使命已经卸除,生活的甘苦也已了然,万丈红尘已移到远处,静下来的周际环境和放慢了的生命节奏加在一起,构成了一种总结性、归纳性的轻微和声,诗的意境出现了。
向往峰巅,向往高度,结果峰巅只是一道刚能立足的狭地。不能横行,不能直走,只享一时俯视之乐,怎可长久驻足安坐?
上已无路,下又艰难,我感到从未有过的孤独与惶恐。世间真正温煦的美色,都熨帖着大地,潜伏在深谷。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvODRhMmNmMjRhNGY4NDQzOGE3MTM2OTA5OGQyZWQ3ZWJfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":466,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/41e2c7cb675441edb7b117df41690aeb__jpg.heic","img_width":700,"text":"君临万物的高度,到头来构成了自我嘲弄。我已看出了它的讥谑,于是急急地来试探下山的陡坡。
人生真是艰难,不上高峰发现不了什么,上了高峰又抓住不了什么。
看来,注定要不断地上坡下坡、上坡下坡。
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文/余秋雨
成熟是一种明亮而不刺眼的光辉,一种圆润而不腻耳的音响,一种不再需要对别人察言观色的从容,一种终于停止向周围申诉求告的大气,一种不理会哄闹的微笑,一种洗刷了偏激的淡漠,一种无须声张的厚实,一种能够看得很远却又并不陡峭的高度。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvNmVkNDdlMmI1MmY5NGNjZTlmYmE2NDIzNWVhZGE2ZWVfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":566,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/2bff8e388aae46aea957337724e5677e__jpg.heic","img_width":700,"text":"我一直认为,某个时期,某个社会,即使所有的青年人和老年人都中魔了,只要中年人不荒唐,事情就坏不到哪里去。
在中年,青涩的生命之果变得如此丰满,喧闹的青春冲撞沉淀成了雍容华贵,连繁重的社会责任也有可能溶解为日常的生活情态。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvMmJmZjhlMzg4YWFlNDZhZWE5NTczMzc3MjRlNTY3N2VfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":360,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/ae93d3acdab04defbcb5c8d5b5e94342__jpg.heic","img_width":640,"text":"到了该自立的年岁还不知道精神上的自立,这是中国很多中年人的共同悲剧。
天天期待着上级的指示、群众的意见、家人的说法,然后才能跨出每一步——这是尚未精神断奶的标志。
最可怕的是,谁也没有断奶,而社会上又没有那么多上好的乳汁,因此开始了对各种伪劣饮料的集体吮吸。
在一片响亮而整齐的吮吸声上面,是那些爬满皱纹却还未苍老的脸。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvYWU5M2QzYWNkYWIwNGRlZmJjYjVjOGQ1YjVlOTQzNDJfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":360,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/8907618316e444429e28b7753c53dabb__jpg.heic","img_width":640,"text":"中年人最容易犯的毛病,是把一切希望都寄托于自己的老年。
如今天天节衣缩食、不苟言笑、忍气吞声,都是在争取着一个有尊严、有资财、有自由的老年。
但是,我们无数次看到了,一个窝囊的中年抵达不到一个欢快的老年。这正像江河,一个浑浊的上段不可能带来一个清澈的下段。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvODkwNzYxODMxNmU0NDQ0MjllMjhiNzc1M2M1M2RhYmJfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":422,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/1c78c13125bb4cfe8a8e32b43bb7c469__jpg.heic","img_width":640,"text":"习惯了郁闷的,只能延续郁闷;习惯了卑琐的,只能保持卑琐。而且,由于暮色苍茫间的体力不支、友朋散失,郁闷只能更加郁闷,卑琐只能更加卑琐。
只有在中年树起独立的桅杆,扬起高高的白帆,唱出响亮的歌声,才会有好风为你鼓劲,群鸥为你引路,找到一个个都在欢迎你的安静港湾,供你细细选择。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvMWM3OGMxMzEyNWJiNGNmZThhOGUzMmI0M2JiN2M0NjlfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":360,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/52d2818e49ff4de2b5bbb94904293e1e__jpg.heic","img_width":640,"text":"中年人的坚守,应该从观点上升到人格,而人格难以言表。
在中年人眼前,大批的对峙消解了,早年的对手失踪了,昨天的敌人无恨了,更多的是把老老少少各色人等照顾在自己身边。
请不要小看这\"照顾\"二字,中年人的魅力至少有一半与此相关。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvNTJkMjgxOGU0OWZmNGRlMmI1YmJiOTQ5MDQyOTNlMWVfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":400,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/62ae4414981a4ed9a7b400de56cc43c4__jpg.heic","img_width":640,"text":"中年人失去方寸的主要特征是忘记了自己的年龄,一会儿要别人像对待青年那样关爱自己,一会儿又要别人像对待老人那样尊敬自己。
明明一个大男人却不能对任何稍稍大一点的问题作出决定,频频找领导倾诉衷肠,出了什么事情又逃得远远的,不敢负一点责任。
","watermark":"?meipian-watermark/bucket/ivwen/key/dXNlcnMvMTM0NTE1MzgvNjJhZTQ0MTQ5ODFhNGVkOWE3YjQwMGRlNTZjYzQzYzRfX2pwZy5oZWlj/nickname/SGVsZW4=/userid/MTM0NTE1Mzg=/sign/4c759595ee21925331e8978b2d66a00f"},{"img_height":436,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/13451538/59460f0d30c74cf5b06a48ebcec89708__jpg.heic","img_width":700,"text":"西方一位哲人说,只有饱经沧桑的老人才会领悟真正的人生哲理,同样一句话,出自老人之口比出自青年之口厚重百倍。对此,我不能全然苟同。
哲理产生在两种相反力量的周旋之中,因此它更垂青于中年。世上一切杰出的哲学家都在中年完成了他们的思想体系,便是证据。
老年是如诗的年岁。这种说法不是为了奉承长辈。
中年太实际、太繁忙,在整体上算不得诗。青年时代常常被诗化,但青年时代的诗太多激情而缺少意境,按我的标准,缺少意境就算不得好诗。
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向往峰巅,向往高度,结果峰巅只是一道刚能立足的狭地。不能横行,不能直走,只享一时俯视之乐,怎可长久驻足安坐?
上已无路,下又艰难,我感到从未有过的孤独与惶恐。世间真正温煦的美色,都熨帖着大地,潜伏在深谷。
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人生真是艰难,不上高峰发现不了什么,上了高峰又抓住不了什么。
看来,注定要不断地上坡下坡、上坡下坡。
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