一个18岁的少年,在这样一个肃穆的场合,有六分钟时间,他会说什么?他会想什么?
确实,太朴实简单,但感动了我。 这是英文的演讲,后面我给出我的听写,也给出了我的翻译。我可以保证,英文的发音很正,我的听和译,则要你的宽容了。他叫Kevin,他的父亲是我的大学同学,好朋友,不久前还喝过酒。 第一个,我要谢谢大家来这边,是你放心给我,好给我妈妈看,这么多人来了。那我对不起,我的英文话-中文话不太好,那我问那个人,知道英文好中文话,可以翻译翻译给人,对吗? 一点一点know得。发现我声音难点,现在我用英文,那个人知道英文好中文话,翻译翻译,给那个人不知道,英文(不)太好。现在我用英文,谢谢。
My father is a great person.
Now I can go all day saying that he's a great person how his great father. However I want to say how we actually be impacting. How we actually affected me and how he actually changed my life.
I think I accepted his death probably. Yes I don't know if I fully accepted it yet but then life goes on.
What I learned from my father was, how to think, how to perceive life. Unfortunately I can't communicate with my mother too well because of the language barrier. So therefore the person affected me the most is my father. My personality this seem to my father.
Now I'm not that sad anymore because my father is never really dead, Right?
Because, if you've only seen him one time. That's a memory. Now for the rest of my life units you seen only once. You always remember, Right? Now also if you're sad. Why we sad? Doesn't help. Doesn't help me doesn’t help sad you doesn't help family, Right? Why let something sad the sad for the rest of your life.
Why we continually sad. It doesn't help you. And I definitely my father will not see that, Right?
So we just accept the fact,factk that I father had gone.
However I guarantee you that he would want us to remember him as a friend, a funny guy, a Strong person, the father.
I would instead of being sad and my father has passed away. Instead look back and remember memories. Because those memories will be last forever. Those incidences and those memories that you've cradles my father will last forever.
Now also the reason why I have come up here without a piece of paper. Because I want to speak from my heart. I don't want to say I don't want sounds robot. I don't want sound like someone who just pre thought of what they're going to see.
If I'm going to speak up here for 2 minutes, and then 2 minutes. I'm going to speak up here for 20 minutes then 20 minutes. However I want speak from my heart. And what my father usually representing in my life.
So I just want all of you of inside not be sad but instead be happy about his life, be happy of what you remember, be happy if the instants is the memories, enjoy that he brought into your life.
As long as he lives in side me and my mother. I carry a lot of characteristics of my father. Such as being humble. My father in the car whenever we driving without actually story about how he wasn't fortunately, how he had to struggle harder than me. How somebody bring their family to Canada to foreign area was no relatives, also very little to no friends. Takes strength and hopefully.
I can become my father. I want to be as strong as. However my father was a perfect. The definite the main stakes.
So when I carry on with my life and when I was 4. I want to look to my father's strengths and my mistakes, and his mistakes. I look for the strength, copy those, and I use it myself because he's my father that who I learn everthings from.
Well I'll look to his mistakes and learn from them. I’ll build upon them and I'll be a better person.
Now my father's probably sitting beside my mother in this room. So I just want him to be peace. I got myself in the future and become a stronger person like my father.
Thank you very much. 没听清楚?没关系,我给翻译了一下。
首先,我要感谢大家来这里,妈妈看到有这么多人来,我也放心了。对不起,我的中文不太好,希望那些中英文都很好的人,可以给翻译翻译,好吗? 一点一点的都清楚了。我的声音很难理解,只好用英文了,谁的英文和中文都好,请给英文不太好的人翻译翻译。现在我用英文,谢谢。
我父亲是个好人。
现在,我可以整天说,他是一个好人,他是多么好的父亲。但我想说的是,我们实际上受到了多大的影响,怎样影响我,以及怎样改变了我的生活。
我想,我大概接受了他的过世。是的,我不知道我是否完全接受,但生活总得继续。
我从我父亲学到的是,如何思考,如何感知生活。可惜,因为语言障碍,我与母亲的沟通不太好。所以,对我影响最大的人,是我的父亲,我的性格,也象我的父亲。
现在,我已不太伤心了,因为我的父亲从来没有真的过世,对吧?因为,如果你只看到他一次。那便是记忆。对于我的余生,只看到一次,总会记得,对吗?现在你很伤心,为什么伤心呢?没有益处,帮不了你我,也帮不了家人,对吧?为什么让余生都悲伤呢?为什么我们要不停的悲伤呢?没有益处,我父亲也决不想看到这样,对吧?
所以,我们只能接受事实,事实是,父亲走了。
我保证,父亲会希望我们,记住他,作为一个朋友,一个有趣的家伙,一个强壮的人,一个父亲。
父亲已经走了,我不再悲伤,回头看,记忆犹在,因为那些记忆将永存,那些事情和那些记忆,让我的父亲永存。
现在,也是为什么我在这里没拿一张稿纸,因为我想说我的心里话。我不想说,我不想,象一个机器人那样说,我不想,象人们早已想好早已看到的那样说。如果,我要在这里说2分钟,那就2分钟,我要在这里说20分钟,那就20分钟,无论怎样,我都要说我的心里话,象我父亲一样表达,在我的生活中,他就是如此。
所以,我想让所有在这里的人,都不要太伤心,而是对他的一生感到高兴,对你的记忆感到快乐,如果瞬间是记忆,享受他曾在你们生活中带来的快乐。
只要他生活在我和我母亲身边,我带了很多我父亲的特点,比如谦卑。每当我们前行,总有我的父亲在车里,找不到实际的例子,关于他怎么不幸运,他是怎样艰难的奋斗,怎样带他的家人来到加拿大,到陌生的国家,没有亲戚,也很少有朋友,保持斗志和希望。
虽然,我父亲很完美,一切都靠他,我能够成为我的父亲,我想要和他一样强壮。
当时我4岁,要继续我的生活。我想观察我父亲的优点和我的不足,以及他的错误。我寻找他的优点,学习优点,使用优点,因为他是我的父亲,我从中学习到一切。
我也会看到他的错误,并从中学到教训,建立在此之上,我会是一个更好的人。
现在,在这房间里,我父亲也许还在母亲旁边,我只希望他归于平静。在未来,我将成为我自己,成为一个更强的人,像我的父亲。
非常感谢你们。 我想,我除了感动,就是感慨了。