<p class="ql-block">昵称：XWQ</p><p class="ql-block">美篇号505215670</p><p class="ql-block">文字链接编辑：XWQ</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">二月的阳光温暖而明媚，由如我们讨论区里热烈而积极的氛围。在这个充满生机的月份，众多精彩的讨论在此展开。下面就让我把二月第三周的讨论区进行汇总。</p><p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">二月第三周美友发符合美友圈话题的有效话题共39条，第三周2月17号——2月23号， 置顶30条，美友发帖自然2条，以下为每日精彩，约您了解.………</p> <p class="ql-block" style="text-align:center;">2025年2月份第三周【置顶】作品</p> <p class="ql-block">二月17号置顶讨论话题：1：@安好－便是晴天♛原创老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cwff3k&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">这个世界上最容易做的事，就是指责别人，最难做的事，就是认清自己。你们认为这句话说的对吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxfncd&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】孩子研究生开学了，和同学在外边合租、但生活中，作息时间、卫生习惯等不同，该如何协调避免矛盾？</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxjuxk&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">朋友把车借给她弟弟用，她弟弟开车结果把人撞了，她弟弟生活困难，拿不出钱来赔偿，这个钱该由谁来赔偿。</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxj6hv&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">旅游坐高铁，和大学生开学季撞个满怀。平时换乘车从容的我们，这次也跟着他们匆匆忙忙地走，生怕错过车次。既然遇上了，就要正确对待，避免矛盾的发生。</a></p><p class="ql-block">二月18号置顶讨论话题：1：春日邮差老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxwe0i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】如果，你的姐妹瞒着家里人，与男朋友结婚，该怎么办啊？而且这件事情还只有你自己知道，另外，她还在上学阶段（快毕业了），求解答</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：一纸淡墨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cy0o0h&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【讨论】邀请各位老师共同探讨！</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cy7zmk&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">看了电影 哪吒之魔童闹海，有人说海哪吒是国企央企公子；敖丙是私人大企业的公子；申公豹算是老百姓中幸运的一波进入了体制 土拨鼠是老百姓的真实写照。老师们有看这部电影了吗？里面的人物像不像当今社会真实写照</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cycors&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">家是心灵的港湾，但是一些年轻人感觉在家里很压抑，没有安全感，是什么原因导致孩子有这种想法呢？</a></p><p class="ql-block">5：@安好－便是晴天♛原创诗老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cy92l2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">请问家人们“挣钱”和 “陪孩子”到底哪个重要？</a></p><p class="ql-block">6：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyab82&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】最近疑神疑鬼，心里总觉得有人在背后说我坏话，害怕！我该怎么办？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px;">二月19号置顶讨论话题：1：菩提慧心老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxu7vg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】老旧小区增设电梯，低楼层住户因采光、噪音和费用问题坚决反对，高楼层住户却因出行刚需急切盼望，若你是社区工作者，如何在满足双方核心诉求下推动电梯顺利增设？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px;">2：0707老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cydv3g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">高速公路上和清雪车相撞，两人受伤。责任应该谁负？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px;">3：仙人指路老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cwfxu8&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">每天吃什么水果对身体好？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px;">4：刍荛之人老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxiulp&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">口口声声，好好聊聊。除夕守岁时分，你做到了吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">5：一纸淡墨老师发起（自然🔥）</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyq94v&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">古人为什么说"亏妻者百财不入，爱妻者风生水起"？各位老师如何看待这句话？身边有这样的事发生吗？一起来聊一聊吧！</a></p><p class="ql-block">二月20号置顶讨论话题：1：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz43ot&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】家庭责任是否应默认按性别分配？双职工夫妻如何公平定义“共同承担”？</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz69qf&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】年已过，工人也开始干活了，这两天我们楼上装修房子，早晨七点就开始干活，中午也不休息，吵的孩子学习也心不在焉，中午也不能休息，找他们也理论，他们说是赶工程，我该找谁来解决。</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：小猫蹦蹦哒老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz708g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">父辈们应不应该把人生经历，苦难和挫折总结成道理灌输给孩子？</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：五零后老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz8rvg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">我家老伴快把我气晕了，我真不知道到底是我太过分，还是他不应该？ 他经常会把家里的东西、或者他不喜欢的东西，不打招呼随便送人………还恼羞成怒的要跟我离婚！ 我也怕他情绪激动不好，但心里生气啊</a></p><p class="ql-block">二月21号置顶讨论话题：1：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz5as1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">昨天遇见奇葩事，大家给评评理</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cwasjl&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">您在矛盾圈的小确幸是什么？</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：微🌻笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czlibm&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">学生有一个问题想请教一下老师们，文化是什么？文化是学历，是经历，还是阅历。学生认为这三种并不是文化的全部，学生认为的文化………但不能没有文化，这句话的含义真的很深。不知学生说的对不对？</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cziv4d&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】孩子大学期间想利用课余时间创业，爸爸觉得这是锻炼孩子能力的好机会，全力支持；妈妈却担心创业会耽误学业，还可能遭遇失败，坚决反对，两人为此争吵不断，该如何解决这种困境？</a></p><p class="ql-block">5：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csuc1w&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】如何提高孩子的口才表达能力呢？</a></p><p class="ql-block">二月22号置顶讨论话题：1：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czr704&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">这位男士算渣男吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czsblp&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】我要买保健品吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：冬虫老师发起（自然🔥）<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czp03c&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">在美篇一个圈子里，被请为管理员评论员，结果三个月内被踢出拉进，四进四出。最后主持人说还是朋友，拉进微信群，不几天，又被踢出群，请各位老师谈谈遇到这个情况怎么办</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：长流水老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czvmio&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">春节过后，你对孩子们压岁钱怎么管？ 孩子开学了。拿出收的几万元压岁钱说继续让我保管，我认为孩子慢慢长大，他们自己的事情学会自己做。我就嘱咐说：自己留点零花，其余管理找你爸妈…………</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">5：澄江飞霞老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czy7nh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">任何人对自己曾经过激不但的行为都要付出惨痛的代价，只是时间长短的问题。您认同这种说法吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">二月23号置顶讨论话题：1：一纸淡墨老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d04iww&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">老人退休后渴望丰富社交生活，参加老年社团、跳广场舞等，结交新朋友，追求精神乐趣。但子女觉得老人应多在家休息，希望老人能多陪伴自己和孙辈，且担心老人外出社交有意外风险…………</a></p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">2025年2月份第三周美友发起话题2月17号一2月23号</p> <p class="ql-block">1：一纸淡墨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d04iww&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">老人退休后渴望丰富社交生活，参加老年社团、跳广场舞等，结交新朋友，追求精神乐趣。但子女觉得老人应多在家休息…………</a></p><p class="ql-block">2：寒薇2964922老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d0fhpt&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">谁来回答我，怎样转发文章到忆童年讨论区</a></p><p class="ql-block">3：寒薇2964922老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d0goax&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】前天我去医院，手机没电了，医院导医带我去用付费充电宝，按照说明三分钟免费，我出门一般不带现金，只好用三分钟免费，昨天收到扣费通知，被扣99元，电话问寻，根本打不通。………</a></p><p class="ql-block">4：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d0fbev&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】我的手机还能要回来吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block">5：秋水伊人老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czou0b&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">西安市中考从明年起计分科目由10个科目调整为7个科目，生物、化学和地理不再计入中考分数，家长对此褒贬不一，议论纷纷，您怎么看？</a></p><p class="ql-block">6：微🌻笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czlibm&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">学生有一个问题想请教一下老师们，文化是什么？文化是学历，是经历，还是阅历。学生认为这三种并不是文化的全部，…………觉得说的很有道理，做人可以没有文凭，但不能没有文化，这句话的含义真的很深。</a></p><p class="ql-block">7：冬虫老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czp03c&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">在美篇一个圈子里，被请为管理员评论员，结果三个月内被踢出拉进，四进四出。最后主持人说还是朋友，拉进微信群，不几天，又被踢出群，请各位老师谈谈遇到这个情况怎么办</a></p><p class="ql-block">8：文浩老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz9a5k&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】孩子爱玩，作业太多又经常通宵，做父母的该怎么做去帮助孩子呢？</a></p><p class="ql-block">9：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d06m5o&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">现在每个人微信朋友，最少上百人甚至上千人，当你遇见事想述说心思，或者想找朋友借钱时，你的朋友圈有几个可以挺身而出的真朋友，大家不妨讨论一下。</a></p><p class="ql-block">10：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyab82&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】最近疑神疑鬼，心里总觉得有人在背后说我坏话，害怕！我该怎么办？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">11：澄江飞霞老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czy7nh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">任何人对自己曾经过激不但的行为都要付出惨痛的代价，只是时间长短的问题。您认同这种说法吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">12：长流水老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czvmio&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">春节过后，你对孩子们压岁钱怎么管？ 孩子开学了。拿出收的几万元压岁钱说继续让我保管，我认为孩子慢慢长大，他们自己的事情学会自己做。……………</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">13：文浩，305212186老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d02mna&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">生活应该美好，生活里的矛盾只是润滑剂，找到了处理的方式方法一切迎刃而解，您认同吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">14：文浩老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cywvcd&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">诚邀各位美篇好友来到这儿，发起生活矛盾的话题和我热心的美友一起分享生活。</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">15：XWQ老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czr704&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">这位男士算渣男吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">16：菩提慧心老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cziv4d&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】孩子大学期间想利用课余时间创业，爸爸觉得这是锻炼孩子能力的好机会，全力支持；妈妈却担心创业会耽误学业，还可能遭遇失败，坚决反对，两人为此争吵不断，该如何解决这种困境？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">17：马静昌老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxpnfx&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">（感谢）相信，希望，爱是美篇的法宝，相信美篇，收获自我。 矛盾圈我已四级，值此升级四级之时，我们应该感谢所有的遇见，给人希望，见证成长，更收获文字的力量，文字的铿锵。………</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">18：春日邮差老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxwe0i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】如果，你的姐妹瞒着家里人，与男朋友结婚，该怎么办啊？而且这件事情还只有你自己知道，另外，她还在上学阶段（快毕业了），求解答</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">19：澄江飞霞老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cycors&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">家是心灵的港湾，但是一些年轻人感觉在家里很压抑，没有安全感，是什么原因导致孩子有这种想法呢？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">20：XWQ老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cy7zmk&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">看了电影 哪吒之魔童闹海，有人说：海哪吒是国企央企公子；敖丙是私人大企业的公子；申公豹算是老百姓中幸运的一波进入了体制 ；土拨鼠是老百姓的真实写照。老师们有看这部电影了吗？里面的人物像不像当今社会真实</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">21：一纸淡墨老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d04iww&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">老人退休后渴望丰富社交生活，参加老年社团、跳广场舞等，结交新朋友，追求精神乐趣……………</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">22：安好－便是晴天♛原创诗老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cy92l2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">请问家人们“挣钱”和 “陪孩子”到底哪个重要？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">23：刍荛之人老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyuckm&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">这一生，有亲朋的陪伴，就是最大的幸福。这一路，守护好亲情，就是最值得的事情。</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">24：0707老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cydv3g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">高速公路上和清雪车相撞，两人受伤。责任应该谁负？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">25：一纸淡墨老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyq94v&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">古人为什么说"亏妻者百财不入，爱妻者风生水起"？各位老师如何看待这句话？身边有这样的事发生吗？一起来聊一聊吧！</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">26：菩提慧心老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxu7vg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】老旧小区增设电梯，低楼层住户因采光、噪音和费用问题坚决反对，高楼层住户却因出行刚需急切盼望，若你是社区工作者，如何在满足双方核心诉求下推动电梯顺利增设？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">27：江湖行老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz7abr&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">人以是非定立场的判断</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">28：一纸淡墨老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cy0o0h&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【讨论】邀请各位老师共同探讨！</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">29：XWQ老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz69qf&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】年已过，工人也开始干活了，这两天我们楼上装修房子，早晨七点就开始干活，中午也不休息，吵的孩子学习也心不在焉，中午也不能休息，找他们也理论，他们说是赶工程，我该找谁来解决。</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">30：菩提慧心老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz43ot&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】家庭责任是否应默认按性别分配？双职工夫妻如何公平定义“共同承担”？</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">31：五零后老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz8rvg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">我家老伴快把我气晕了，我真不知道到底是我太过分，还是他不应该？ 他经常会把家里的东西、或者他不喜欢的东西，不打招呼随便送人，或者扔掉………</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">32：XWQ老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz5as1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">昨天遇见奇葩事，大家给评评理</a></p><p class="ql-block"><span style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">33：黛慧117443305老师发起</span><a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=c8zop1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">初入此圈，向各位老师学习！边看边学，三人行，必有我师！</a></p><p class="ql-block">34：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cxpcan&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">虽然花瓣不多，但唯一的一次满堂彩图案，必须留个纪念</a></p><p class="ql-block">35：小猫蹦蹦哒老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cz708g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">父辈们应不应该把人生经历，苦难和挫折总结成道理灌输给孩子？</a></p><p class="ql-block">36：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=czsblp&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】我要买保健品吗？</a></p><p class="ql-block">37：五零后老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyv1ko&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">新人报道，请多多关照🙏 总算找到了一个可以诉说烦恼的地方啦(^ω^)✌️</a></p><p class="ql-block">38：JNGG老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cyha10&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">男人哲理。 家庭， 难听的话只有老婆说， 好听的话只有妖精说， 所以听老婆的家庭有好也有坏，关键是女人的格局，素质。……………</a></p><p class="ql-block">39@安好－便是晴天♛原创诗老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=d0iqwi&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">谁能解释一下，为什么小时候特别讨厌得戏曲，老了却慢慢喜欢了呢，就是因为老了吗？</a></p> <p class="ql-block" style="text-align:center;">一周结束语</p> <p class="ql-block ql-indent-1">我们生活矛盾圈见证了老师们从陌生到萌芽到成长，感受到了相互支持与鼓励的力量。 每一次的讨论交流都是心灵的沟通。大家在这里分享各自的观点、交流经验、倾诉心声，生活矛盾圈讨论区就是我们温馨的家。</p>