2月份第1周美友圈【讨论】区的🔥贴展示

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一月悄然落幕，二月已来临，它带着春的气息，为【生活矛盾圈】的讨论区注入了新的活力。在这里大家畅所欲言，分享着各自的见解和经验。我给老师们梳理一下二月的讨论脉络，共同呈现这丰富而精彩的讨论区汇总。2月第1周美友发符合美友圈话题的有效话题63条，第1周2月3号——2月9号【包括1号，2号两天】置顶41条，美友发帖自然🔥6条，以下为每日精彩，约您了解……… 2025年2月份第一周【置顶】作品包括［上周1、2号］两天 二月一号置顶：1：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cd8yn2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【矛盾】嫂子生气回娘家让大哥拿十万块钱我们该怎么办</a>2：古香古色老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=c0opuz&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">家家有本难念的经，理不顺疏不直。请到本圈圈，帮你排忧艰难。</a>3：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cpu0hz&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">美篇写作以文为主，图为辅，放几张图片是为文章增色添香的。为什么有的老师喜欢文章末尾放几十张图片呢？一篇好好的作品就这样浪费掉了</a>4：晚霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cr3ir9&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">美篇平台上因种种原因互加关注称为互关，经常互动交流的称为好友，对于好友之间是否真是好友，不要看你怎么对待Ta，而是要看Ta怎么对待你，这种说法对吗？</a>二月二号置顶：1：文浩老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cqtls0&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">元月份【美篇精选】自荐开始了……</a>2：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crghym&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】我该怎么办？</a>3：吴灶民发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cqwa0q&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】他该怎么办？小王来自农村，今年28岁了，月工资5000元，属于他们单位的蓝领。今年春节回家，父母又在催婚了。小王也很难过！谈过三个女朋友，刚开始都感觉不错。随着交往的深入，小王带着女朋友回老</a>4：XWQ发起【自然🔥】<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cqwezr&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">特别的日子送给特别的你</a>5：澄江飞霞老师发起【自然🔥】<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cqn7c6&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">如果人间没有病痛，没有烦恼，没有忧愁，没有争吵和矛盾，每天都开开心心的，诸事顺利，该是多么好。</a>二月三号置顶：1：XWQ老师发起【自然🔥】：<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ci0qcu&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">交物业费，这点事物业该不该管</a>2：晩霞不私聊老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crzcg2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">讨论栏目的观点能用日常的形式展示出来吗？具体表现形式应如何斟酌？</a>3：环环老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crx5x1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【小师妹应该怎么办？】</a>4：微笑老师发起【自然🔥】<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crzj0p&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】我要怎么做？</a>5：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cqk3w1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】如何解决父母与子女之间的代沟？</a>二月四号置顶：1：展翅知天高老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cmcb5l&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】“异味”危机某团队组建，好不容易补齐人数，个别人因口臭被人诟病，某出于好心提醒，却让新成员自尊受挫，甚至萌生退意，而团队又缺她不可。组织者埋怨提醒之人多嘴。搞得大家都不愉快。这种善意的提醒有</a>2：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=chu9t7&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】亮亮是个调皮的孩子，因为爷爷奶奶、爸爸妈妈十分溺爱，变得越来越任性，无理取闹，可爸爸妈妈又不想太约束孩子，该不该立规矩，如何给孩子立规矩？</a>3：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cs8xoj&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">余生做好自己，该放下的就放下，别凡事都亲力亲为，管住自己的嘴也需要一定的智慧和修养，否则会矛盾四起。您怎么看？</a>4：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cr51y6&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】过年走亲访友，是否要遵循传统的拜访顺序，还是根据自己的时间和意愿安排？</a>5：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ci4oqk&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】雨涵的妈妈很烦恼，每次孩子事情完成的很好的时候，考试成绩不错的时候，不知道怎么去夸奖孩子才更为适宜，妈妈怕夸奖过头了孩子飘了怎么办，长期不夸奖又怕孩子会失望，求助如何才能更为适宜的夸奖孩子呢</a>二月五号置顶：1：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ck3h69&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】单位要提个主管，多个员工竞争同一晋升岗位，落选者可能对评选结果质疑，或认为存在不公平竞争。你的看法呢？</a>2：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cqa7ah&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">在家里，掌柜人一定就有话语权吗？那掌勺人呢？</a>二月六号置顶：1：幽梦老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=brfhab&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">主持人您好，美友们您们好：我有时候不想参加饭局，可是又抹不开面子，不好意思拒绝，可是心里又不喜欢参加，因为那不是我的本意，我感到心里好纠结，您能告诉我该如何处理此事吗？</a>2：山水堂老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct0fkc&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">人到了老年，是该较少的联络亲朋好友？还是适当多的联络各种亲朋好友及熟人呢？请教你给个建议谢谢！</a>3：作家焦书匠老师发起【自然🔥】<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=c3vijy&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">永远感谢龙老师对我创作路上的支持和鼓励。</a>4：一纸淡墨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crhr4t&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】来自电梯里的小插曲，美友支招！</a>5：马静昌老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct5ecn&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">（求助）生活条件越来越好了，智能化，数字化，人们却越来越忙碌，越来越焦虑。农村串亲戚开车一天走几家，打个点站随机离开，时间真的不够用了，姑娘小伙也没有时间谈恋爱结婚了，这个世界究竟是怎么了</a>二月七号置顶：1：微🌻笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=c43kkl&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">事情能解决就是好事，受一点伤也没关系，这就是你的人生该走的路，有些东西失去了就失去了，那本就不属于你，其实我现在遇到大事也不一定能走的出来，我也在不断的磨练自己，不断的让自己成长。</a>2：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cpysbe&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【矛盾】圈是3.2万人的大圈，为什么在讨论区参与话题讨论的人却很少，就那么十几个？我猜想多数老师和我当初来美篇一样，认为把作品写好就可以了，来讨论区互动费时费力还伤眼睛。其实互动挺好的，既得到了化解生</a>3：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctlr1s&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】我要敞开心扉吗？</a>4：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctn3c2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】想省钱又总被消费主义广告吸引，忍不住剁手怎么办？</a>5：故里老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctsyxv&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">用平静的心态治愈自己，你觉得呢？</a>6：吴灶民老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctt897&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求支招】今年春节回家，有亲友给我吐槽，儿子是00后，刚刚参加工作，月工资5000元左右。为了感谢父亲的养育之恩，花了7000元给他买了一套衣服！他心里憋得慌：收吧，心里难过，毕竟一辈子还没有穿过这么</a>二月八号置顶：1：马静昌老师发起【自然🔥】<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctzvb4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">（求助）请问后悔是否是明智的反省，结合李斯的情况谈谈您生活的感受！李斯留下的那句遗言也值得人深思，他对自己的儿子说：吾欲与若复牵黄犬俱出上蔡东门逐狡兔，岂可得乎</a>2：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cu40ju&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">人与人之间为什么要互相伤害呢？就不能好好沟通吗？</a>3：微🌻笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=bpr7jh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">生活中的矛盾多样化，别看是一件不起眼的小事，却能看透一个人的内心，矛盾无处不在，就看你怎么去解决，………可现在看来也不是完全的，要分对什么人，有些人你越是退，越是忍，他就越欺负你。所以善良要给对人……</a>4：江湖行老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cu8ljx&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">家有一老，如有一宝！</a>5：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctpd4i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">农民的权威该找那个部门解决</a>二月九号置顶：1：董懂老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cugchb&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】爱情与面包‌的矛盾，选择伴侣时的困境……</a>2：长流水老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cugv0g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">单位小王在每年春节陪媳妇去岳父岳母家，心中就纠结，打不起精神。因为自己来自山区农村，工作也不算好。去了后，感觉他们不仅不热情相待，有时还冷嘲热讽，自尊心受到严重伤害。这该怎么办？请大家指招</a>3：马静昌老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cuobw9&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">（求助）如何妙语连珠轻松自如？无论是工作中还是生活中，有的人明明很有才华，与人交流往往三言两语便无话可说，这是情商差还是个性拘谨？他们又应该如何克服这一弊端</a>4：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cukrfh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">去商场买衣服，试了几件没合适的，没买准备走服务员就不耐烦的说不买就别试，试完又不买，嘴里还骂骂咧咧的，这事该不该和她理论。</a> 2025年2月份第一周美友发起话题2月3号—2月9号［包括上周1、2号］两天 01：晩霞不私聊老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cr3ir9&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">美篇平台上因种种原因互加关注称为互关，经常互动交流的称为好友，对于好友之间是否真是好友，不要看你怎么对待Ta，而是要看Ta怎么对待你，这种说法对吗？</a>02：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crlru8&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求解】一句话交流圈怎么看不到更新老师们的作品，从我加入到现在一个多月了就这几篇文章。怎么回事呢？</a>03：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crghym&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】我该怎么办？</a>04：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crgqgj&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">都说过年的那几天不能吃药，不能生气，要高高兴兴的，这样一年都顺心顺意，风生水起，事事如意，是这样吗？谁能做到呢？</a>05：刍荛之人老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crvn4b&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">春节和谐气氛中的感受，大家可谈一谈。</a>06：孟老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cs83f5&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">向群里各位老师们学习，祝各位美友健康快乐，幸福美满，心想事成，万事如意。</a>07：刍荛之人老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csie6r&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">最美亲情凝聚和绽放于春节。中国人有别于世界其它民族的文化心理和家庭情节，正是“非遗版”春节的独特魅力。</a>08：文浩老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csiu52&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">📢『生活矛盾，群众评理”约您分享生活里的矛盾，约您参与热心美友发起的生活矛盾话题讨论。我们约您支妙招招，实现“群众调解促和谐,化解矛盾保平安”。</a>09：0707老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csjm43&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】儿女亲家来往，一定要拿四盒礼吗？</a>10：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csjy5i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">［求助］这件事我该怎么办</a>11：微🌻笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csl6cy&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】请问00后的孩子该怎么管？</a>12：环环老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cslaeh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】🙏🙏🙏，请您来帮帮我。邻居老郑家是城里人，有一个独生女儿，招了一个外地的女婿，是农村户口的农民。………两家老人互不相让，眼看快满月了户口一直没上。求助老师我应该怎么办。</a>13：栀子花香（拒聊拒鲜花）老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cslwbe&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】情书💌是美好的开始，因情书💌让有缘人走到一起，可是看到他们因情书💌结缘，而婚姻破裂时，我不知道怎么办了…请大家支招！</a>14：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csmgzi&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】她该怎么选？敬请各位老师们踊跃支招，谢谢！</a>15：江湖行老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csmi3v&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】弟小时候，哥送他上学读书，为他扛着床步行崎岖的山路………他哥对我说：“请不要将善良视为一种负担或牺牲，而是将其视为一种照亮自己和他人的光芒！坚守善良的底线，而这个世界将变得更加公正而和谐……”</a>16：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csn4ir&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">永远不要在熟人面前说以下五句话，以免后悔莫及。 1.炫耀成就的大话。 2.揭人伤疤的狠话。 3.贬低他人的坏话。 4.挑拨离间的坏话。 5.承诺却难兑现的空话。这些话说出来都是矛盾，您说呢？</a>17：环环老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csn87h&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】🙏🙏🙏她该怎么办？同学的老公是一个企业的老总，和单位会计有暧昧关系，而且给会计买了一个独居房子…………离婚吧，孩子还没结婚，这个家散了以后，儿子怎么办？🙏🙏🙏这两难的家丑，求助老师</a>18：龙卷风雨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csndnn&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】人到老年，就喜欢回忆儿时写回忆录，我现在想提高写作水平，怎样把自己忆童年往事转化为童年文学?</a>19：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csl9f1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】退休后的她该怎么办呢？约您来帮帮退休后的她吧……</a>20：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csu61h&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】怎样创建学习型家庭？</a>21：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csu7k1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】如何提高父母的威信？</a>22：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csu81j&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】如何适宜的夸奖孩子呢？</a>23：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csu95m&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】教育孩子需要打吗？打孩子的尺度如何把握呢？</a>24：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csu9dx&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】溺爱孩子的后果有哪些呢？如何才能做到不溺爱呢？</a>25：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csuamh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】孩子依赖性太强怎么办？</a>26：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csuc1w&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】如何提高孩子的口才表达能力呢？</a>27：一纸淡墨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cstv87&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【支招】请各位美友帮忙支招解决邻里发生的小插曲！</a>28：新雨（拒私聊）老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csv43r&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【支招】你喜欢参加哪种形式的活动？现在美篇几乎每天都有活动，可以说是精彩纷呈。有征文，有评论，有打卡，有话题讨论等等</a>29：诗圣诗人诗圣诗人老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csmn03&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">中国黑龙江省望奎县先锋（乡）镇坤三（大队）村于大骡子屯作家写作人，生活艺术家…… 我今天正月初七晚8点以后加入“生活矛盾评理委员会第32958位成员，了解百姓心态，人生之路拓宽的社会学科目标生存理念…</a>30：晩霞不私聊老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crzcg2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">讨论栏目的观点能用日常的形式展示出来吗？具体表现形式应如何斟酌？</a>31：环环老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crx5x1&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【小师妹应该怎么办？】</a>32：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csj1dg&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】老年的我要进步，又想提高，请您参谋下，我该报哪个班更好呢？</a>33：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crzj0p&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】我要怎么做？</a>34：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct6man&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【矛盾】医疗资源有限，应该优先将资源分配给治愈率高的常见疾病患者，还是用于攻克罕见病难题？</a>35：文浩老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cr4m4c&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【温馨提醒】作品被标注“AI生成技术……”您遇到过吗？遇到又是怎么处理呢？明明我自己的文字与图片怎么会有这样的提醒？我们在年初四聊聊，看看我是如何解决的吧。</a>36：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cs8xoj&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">余生做好自己，该放下的就放下，别凡事都亲力亲为，管住自己的嘴也需要一定的智慧和修养，否则会矛盾四起。您怎么看？</a>37：来毅楠老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct8y5v&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">家和万事兴，家庭要和睦，身体要健康。儿子和母亲是和睦相处的，是心连心的，宝贝外甥和舅舅舅妈是心连心的，是和睦相处的，宝贝侄子和叔叔婶婶是和睦相处的，是心连心的。是中华民族统一战线。</a>38：一纸淡墨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crhr4t&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】来自电梯里的小插曲，美友支招！</a>39：泾渭分明老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct25v2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】有一件事，困扰我近二年了，我原来在微小说圈，因为质疑一篇文章不是小说，和管理员发生争执，被管理员违规永久拉黑了……我只好应战，我现在把他的文章附上我的意思想和好，请给参谋参谋看我应该怎么办？</a>40：。。。。。。老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cscj20&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">和亲戚一起合伙创业，让我当法人，他是实际控制人，他想偷税漏税，我不同意，我还要不要继续合作</a>41：董懂老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=csvxyi&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】面对这冷战你有何妙招？求助：先生该怎么办？请大家勇跃支招，感谢大家！</a>42：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cr51y6&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】过年走亲访友，是否要遵循传统的拜访顺序，还是根据自己的时间和意愿安排？</a>43：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctn3c2&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求助】想省钱又总被消费主义广告吸引，忍不住剁手怎么办？</a>44：马静昌老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct5ecn&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">（求助）生活条件越来越好了，智能化，数字化，人们却越来越忙碌，越来越焦虑。农村串亲戚开车一天走几家，打个点站随机离开，时间真的不够用了，姑娘小伙也没有时间谈恋爱结婚了，这个世界究竟是怎么了？</a>45：故里老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctsyxv&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">用平静的心态治愈自己，你觉得呢？</a>46：微笑老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctlr1s&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】我要敞开心扉吗？</a>47：山水堂老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ct0fkc&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">人到了老年，是该较少的联络亲朋好友？还是适当多的联络各种亲朋好友及熟人呢？请教你给个建议谢谢！</a>48：马静昌老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctzvb4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">（求助）请问后悔是否是明智的反省，结合李斯的情况谈谈您生活的感受！李斯留下的那句遗言也值得人深思，他对自己的儿子说：吾欲与若复牵黄犬俱出上蔡东门逐狡兔，岂可得乎</a>49：吴灶民老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctt897&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size:18px;">【求支招】今年春节回家，有亲友给我吐槽，儿子是00后，刚刚参加工作，月工资5000元……，他心里憋得慌心里难过，毕竟一辈子还没有穿过这么贵的又觉得对不住儿子如果是这老父亲，我们会怎么做………</a>50：龙卷风雨老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cu6ftl&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">今天我升到4级了，继续努力，向5级进</a>51：雄鹰展翅老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cu6ith&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">近日，刚刚升到3级，向老师们学习，向4级努力进军</a>52：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cu40ju&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">人与人之间为什么要互相伤害呢？就不能好好沟通吗？</a>53：文浩老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cub75e&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">是不是这样呢？最近我意识到：“人的一生是一个学习的过程，总会有一些人一些事儿刷新着我的三观，提升着我对这个世界的认识。”</a>54：江南阿毛老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cufpxa&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">水仙</a>55：温光养德老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cucro4&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">我喜欢军人，我自幼在部队旁边长大，最喜欢新一代最可爱的人，参加老山的英雄军魂，向最可爱的中国军人致敬，向你们学习，愿您东天有暖和，身体健康，生活锦上添花，处处为祖国点靓红旗飘扬，向你们以从高礼仪敬礼</a>56：澄江飞霞老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=crpn5t&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">想必老师们都看到了，美篇作品设置里，下拉最后一行有“Al创作声明”几个字，那是不是意味着可以用Al创作作品？</a>57XWQ老师发起：<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=ctpd4i&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">农民的权威该找那个部门解决</a>58：江湖行老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cu8ljx&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">家有一老，如有一宝！</a>59：长流水老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cugv0g&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">单位小王在每年春节陪媳妇去岳父岳母家，心中就纠结，打不起精神。因为自己来自山区农村，工作也不算好。去了后，感觉他们不仅不热情相待，有时还冷嘲热讽，自尊心受到严重伤害。这该怎么办？请大家指招</a>60：董懂老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cugchb&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】爱情与面包‌的矛盾，选择伴侣时的困境……</a>61：马静昌老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cuobw9&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">（求助）如何妙语连珠轻松自如？无论是工作中还是生活中，有的人明明很有才华，与人交流往往三言两语便无话可说，这是情商差还是个性拘谨？他们又应该如何克服这一弊端</a>62：XWQ老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cukrfh&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">去商场买衣服，试了几件没合适的，没买准备走服务员就不耐烦的说不买就别试，试完又不买，嘴里还骂骂咧咧的，这事该不该和她理论。</a>63：菩提慧心老师发起<a href="https://www.meipian.cn/platform/hot-discussion?mask_id=cukccy&share_to=group_singlemessage&user_id=505215670&uuid=5833d2a3fdff54468184edf5c8da63b0&share_depth=1&first_share_uid=505215670&utm_medium=meipian_android&share_user_mpuuid=11cab6929338e343b43f6776a2f1c5cf&from=singlemessage&first_share_to=singlemessage" target="_blank" style="font-size:18px; background-color:rgb(255, 255, 255);">【求助】老人溺爱孩子，年轻父母想严格教育，如何协调二者，让教育理念达成一致，你们怎么样面对这个家庭的难题？</a> 一周总结语 在二月已走过的一周中，我们的讨论区充满了热情与智慧的碰撞。大家在这里分享观点、交流经验、倾诉心声，共同编织了一幅丰富多彩的交流画卷。