<p class="ql-block">2024-11-11 01：10</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">今天星期天，对他进行了怎样的观察，</p><p class="ql-block">上午的观察，</p><p class="ql-block">中午下午给茵羽辅导的观察，</p><p class="ql-block">和斐斐的沟通，</p><p class="ql-block">和彤彤的沟通，</p><p class="ql-block">对自己的观察，</p><p class="ql-block">和乔乔的沟通，</p><p class="ql-block">周末去公园散步，</p><p class="ql-block">和潘园园的沟通，</p><p class="ql-block">给青，闻，也都发出了信息问候链接。</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">此刻，他的心情，难以形容，低落？难过？抑郁？遗憾？难以描述？</p><p class="ql-block">这种心智模式出现很多次，</p><p class="ql-block">遇到特别艰难的事情？</p><p class="ql-block">用意志力默默低沉？承受？</p><p class="ql-block">转移？或者说学会了缓解？疏通？</p><p class="ql-block">甚至，转念？！</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">前面，他感觉自己好失败？！</p><p class="ql-block">原来，他会有失败的感觉？！</p><p class="ql-block">他在自己头脑的“自以为是”之中？</p><p class="ql-block">This is called self Discovery and 意识的觉醒吧？！</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">“又没有到绝望，和走投无路的时候”</p><p class="ql-block">“不是还是有很多机会的吗？”</p><p class="ql-block">“又不是完全没有机会”</p><p class="ql-block">“可能峰回路转啊，没必要这个时候，就气馁，和缴械投降吧？！”</p><p class="ql-block">“都41啦……”</p><p class="ql-block">“41怎么了，年龄只是数字……有人这个年龄，也许还不如自己呐，每个人命运不同！”</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">还在为自己的事情，纠结，</p><p class="ql-block">小人长戚戚，君子坦荡荡，</p><p class="ql-block">还在为自己的事情纠结？！</p><p class="ql-block">还在小我头脑模式中？</p><p class="ql-block">大我被小我给制裁了？</p><p class="ql-block">专职，独裁了？！</p><p class="ql-block">这是一种怎样反抗的力量？</p><p class="ql-block">头脑和心智中各有怎样拉拽，很强的力量呢？！</p><p class="ql-block">谁占上风？谁占下风？！</p><p class="ql-block">谁强谁弱？</p><p class="ql-block">该怎样的人生？</p><p class="ql-block">该怎样的人生轨道？轨迹？模板？模式？</p><p class="ql-block">后悔？遗憾？</p><p class="ql-block">正常？不正常？</p><p class="ql-block">接受？反抗？</p><p class="ql-block">情愿？不情愿？</p><p class="ql-block">坦然的接受？允许？</p> <p class="ql-block">Exactly! A growth mindset allows us to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, rather than seeing them as threats. It also helps us to view failures as learning experiences and to persist in the face of setbacks.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">When we have a fixed mindset, we tend to believe that our intelligence, talents, and abilities are fixed and cannot be changed. This can lead to a fear of failure and a reluctance to take risks. We may also give up easily when faced with difficulties, rather than persevering and trying to improve.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">On the other hand, when we have a growth mindset, we understand that we can always learn and grow, no matter how difficult the task may seem. We are willing to put in the effort and take the necessary risks to achieve our goals.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">So, how can we develop a growth mindset? One way is to focus on the process of learning, rather than just the outcome. Instead of being fixated on getting a perfect grade or achieving a certain level of success, we should concentrate on the effort we put in and the skills we develop along the way.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">We can also learn from our mistakes and use them as opportunities to grow. Instead of getting discouraged by failure, we should analyze what went wrong and try to do better next time.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">Another important aspect is to surround ourselves with people who have a growth mindset. Their positive attitude and willingness to learn can inspire us to do the same.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">Finally, we should encourage and praise effort and progress, rather than just innate ability. This will help to build confidence and a love of learning in ourselves and others.</p><p class="ql-block"> </p><p class="ql-block">Do you have any personal experiences with developing a growth mindset?</p>