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河流生长出河鱼,大海生长出海鱼;浅水生长出小鱼,深水生长出大鱼;冰水生长出冰鱼,热水生长出热带鱼。这些鱼也可以被叫作“特产”。是鱼决定了水,还是水决定了鱼?当然,它是一种自然的选择。鱼会根据它的需要来选择适合自己的水,因为鱼很自由,它有更多的选择权。而孩子没有选择权来选择他的父母,孩子一出生就已经被决定了他会在什么样的环境中成长。
一条金鱼如果从出生到长大一直在金鱼缸里生长的话,它不一定长得很大。但它一旦被放在鱼塘里,不用管它,一年不到,它就比在鱼缸里长得要大一倍。环境决定人,如果你从小就生活在英国,而且你周围的人只讲英语,那么哪怕你是华人也不一定会讲中文。
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当我们处于开心状态时,自然就有了一些好的想法,也叫建设性想法;当我们处于情绪低落状态时,自然就有了一些不好的想法,也叫破坏性想法。想法加上感受很容易转化为信念。信念系统是指导一个人行为的依据和准则,也叫他的道理,理直气壮是因为他认为他有道理。
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爱孩子最好的方式就是爱你的伴侣。因为一个人的幸福一定是来自人与人之间的关系。特别是夫妻关系,与孩子关系好但与伴侣关系不好,相信你也很难感受到真正的幸福;但如果与伴侣的关系好,你一定深感幸福,夫妻关系好的家庭亲子关系自然也不差。因为往往最亲密的那个人恰恰有可能是最难相处的那个人,这么难相处的人你都能相处好,这个世界上已经没有什么人是相处不好的了。
如果爱没有增加的话,事情是不会有任何改变的。自己活出爱的状态,成为家中的那个太阳,家人自然就处于温暖的状态中,心开就开心。
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当我们处于开心状态时,自然就有了一些好的想法,也叫建设性想法;当我们处于情绪低落状态时,自然就有了一些不好的想法,也叫破坏性想法。想法加上感受很容易转化为信念。信念系统是指导一个人行为的依据和准则,也叫他的道理,理直气壮是因为他认为他有道理。
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