父亲的“颁奖词”

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屹立今朝，又是一年父亲节，爸爸节日快乐呀！在没有隆重“颁奖典礼”的家庭生活环境中，只有这样一年一度的特殊契机，我才有机会以文字形式展开叙述关于您在陪伴我们成长方面作出卓越贡献的“颁奖词”。

Standing today, is Father's Day again. Happy Father’s Day! In the family life environment where there is no grand “Award ceremony", it is only this annual special chance that I have the opportunity to express the “Award Speech" about your outstanding contribution in accompanying us to grow up by writing.

众所周知，在我们博大精深的中华文化数千年传承下来的历史观念里，父爱一向都藏匿于深处，不轻易显山露水。但这并不代表他作为父亲对孩子最真切的爱就不存在或被忽略，而是他在以自己独特的方式持续不断的去付出。虽然由于各种原因，他往往不会用最直接的方式表达爱。但作为孩子，我们需要做的就是像解锁密码一样，从一开始的疑惑不解，到逐渐柳暗花明的欣喜，再到最后顺藤摸瓜发现了父亲的良苦用心。这个过程着实繁琐，但日积月累下来，也在思维方式中潜移默化的影响着我们，从起初的一头雾水，到慢慢的举一反三，紧接着窥斑见豹，偶尔甚至可以预判父亲的想法。我想这都是成长，在与社会正式接轨之前，这些能力都是我们必不可少的，父亲在用自身几十年的经验积累与岁月沉淀来帮助我们磨练意志、加速成长，达到事半功倍的效果。

As we all know, our profound Chinese culture for thousands of years down the historical concept, father’s love has always hidden in the depths, not easy to show. But that doesn't mean that his love for his children as a father doesn't exist or should be ignored. He continues to show love in his own unique way. Although for various reasons, he often not expressed love to us in the most direct way. But as children, what we need to do is like the unlock password, from the beginning of confusion, to gradually excited, and finally follow the clues to discover the father's good intentions. This process is really complicated, but accumulated over a long period of time, it also exerts a subtle influence in our way of thinking. From being confused at first, to slowly drawing inferences, then knowing a straw shows which way the wind blows, occasionally even predicting father's thoughts. I think these actions are all growth. Before the formal integration with the society, these abilities are essential for us. Father used his decades of experience accumulation and years of precipitation to help us hone our will, accelerate the speed of growth, to achieve twice the result with half the effort.

这种解密的过程以曾经年少的视角来看是充满不解，责怪与泪水的，为什么父亲要让我们经历那么多同龄小孩不需要思考与实践的事情，为什么我们的父亲不能像别人的父亲一样事无巨细的陪伴在身旁等等。

From the perspective of once young kid, the process of declassification is full of perplexity, blame and tears. Why our fathers make us experience so many problems which children of the same age never think and practice? Why can't our fathers accompany us in every detail like other children’s father？

但时至今日，年满十八岁的我发自内心的感激父亲从小对我这样的教育，让我很早就明白了许多事情的牵一发而动全身，任何事物的起承转合都需要三思而后行等等。这些道理不言而喻贯穿在学校的课本中，但却难免缺少现实社会的浸润与敲打，父亲早早就意识到了书本知识与现实生活的巨大差距，所以在我们的成长过程中刻意植入了最真实且有效的方法——讲一万遍道理不如亲身经历一次。

But today, at the age of 18, I am grateful to my father from the bottom of my heart for such an education to me since my childhood, so that I have long understood that many small things will affect the whole body, any things need to think at least third times before you do and so on. These truths are self-evident throughout the school textbooks, but it should be admitted that these written truths lack of the infiltration and percussion of the real society. My father has been aware of the huge gap between book knowledge and real life, so he deliberately implanted the most real and effective methods in our growth process -- It is better to experience once than to preach ten thousand times.

而随着时间的慢慢沉淀，我相信父亲教会我们的这些密码背后的东西，都将成为我们充满未知荆棘与坎坷挑战的人生道路上最坚硬的外壳！未来任何彷徨失措、不知进退的时刻，父亲的爱都将为我们指引并点亮前进的方向！

With the gradual precipitation of time, I believe that the things behind these passwords taught by my father will become the hardest shell on our life road full of unknown thorns and bumpy challenges! In the future, when we meet confusion, do not know advance and retreat, father's love will guide and light the way forward for us!

最后，正式“颁奖”前，我想以最真挚的心意，再跟您说一声，父亲节快乐呀！

Finally, before the formal “Award", I want to say again with the most sincere heart, Happy Father's Day!