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🍀 允许孩子解释
偏听则暗,兼听则明,不能听信某一方的指责,要允许孩子自己解释。家长保持中立,客观评价孩子是否做错,为什么做错。
🍀学会换位思考
家长要换位思考,理解孩子这么做的目的,找准批评的切入点。
并且让孩子换位思考,“假设你是那个人,你会有什么感受,这么做到底对不对”。
🍀 首先自我批评
批评孩子前,家长先进行自我批评,放低身段,迅速拉近跟孩子的关系。家长的自我批评,也能让孩子学会自我反思。
🍀只对事不对人
孩子做错了或者没做好,家长第一反应不是责骂,而是指导。
就事论事,让孩子明白为什么不能这么做,这么做会有什么后果。
🍀教会孩子改错
不能盲目地批评,要通过科学的方法让孩子意识到错误,并且找到改错的方法。利用批评再给孩子上一课,是批评的意义所在。
🍀 选择恰当的时机
不能在孩子起床时、睡觉前、吃饭时、生病时批评他,这会直接影响他的身心健康。最好和孩子坐下来平静交流,父母可以对孩子提要求,孩子也可以对父母提意见。
🍀采用和善的态度
批评孩子≠骂孩子,父母更不能向孩子宣泄情绪,应该简明扼要地指出错误,然后再教育。也不要动不动就翻旧账,让孩子抵触认错,不服管教。
🍀 尊重孩子的自尊
别当着外人面批评孩子,更不要在孩子的同学、老师面前对他又打又骂。不只大人需要被尊重,孩子同样需要被尊重,孩子的内心比我们想象的更加脆弱敏感。
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偏听则暗,兼听则明,不能听信某一方的指责,要允许孩子自己解释。家长保持中立,客观评价孩子是否做错,为什么做错。
🍀学会换位思考
家长要换位思考,理解孩子这么做的目的,找准批评的切入点。
并且让孩子换位思考,“假设你是那个人,你会有什么感受,这么做到底对不对”。
🍀 首先自我批评
批评孩子前,家长先进行自我批评,放低身段,迅速拉近跟孩子的关系。家长的自我批评,也能让孩子学会自我反思。
🍀只对事不对人
孩子做错了或者没做好,家长第一反应不是责骂,而是指导。
就事论事,让孩子明白为什么不能这么做,这么做会有什么后果。
🍀教会孩子改错
不能盲目地批评,要通过科学的方法让孩子意识到错误,并且找到改错的方法。利用批评再给孩子上一课,是批评的意义所在。
🍀 选择恰当的时机
不能在孩子起床时、睡觉前、吃饭时、生病时批评他,这会直接影响他的身心健康。最好和孩子坐下来平静交流,父母可以对孩子提要求,孩子也可以对父母提意见。
🍀采用和善的态度
批评孩子≠骂孩子,父母更不能向孩子宣泄情绪,应该简明扼要地指出错误,然后再教育。也不要动不动就翻旧账,让孩子抵触认错,不服管教。
🍀 尊重孩子的自尊
别当着外人面批评孩子,更不要在孩子的同学、老师面前对他又打又骂。不只大人需要被尊重,孩子同样需要被尊重,孩子的内心比我们想象的更加脆弱敏感。
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