<p class="ql-block">《没有爱，就没有教育》</p><p class="ql-block">富裕县实验中学 王秀红</p> <p class="ql-block"> Hello, everyone! It is my greatest honour to stand here to share my teaching story with you.</p><p class="ql-block"> As we all know, love is a permanent theme in the world. Love makes the world go around. Love to us human is what water to fish. Without love, the world would be dark. Too often, we take it for granted, but we shoud know love is a priceless gift we should cherish. I have heard a saying: the quickest way to receive love is to give it; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it to tightly; the best way to keep love is to give it wings. Love is so important that all things in the world need it. Without exception, education needs love, too. I think, education full of love is true education.</p><p class="ql-block"> 大家好!很荣幸能站在这里与大家分享我的教学故事。</p><p class="ql-block"> 众所周知，爱是世界上一个永恒的主题。爱让世界转动。爱对我们人类就像水对鱼一样。没有爱，世界将一片黑暗。太多时候，我们认为它理所当然，但我们应该知道爱是无价的礼物，我们应该珍惜。我曾听过一句谚语:得到爱的最快方法是给予爱;失去爱最快的方法就是紧紧抓住爱不放;保持爱的最好方法就是给爱插上翅膀。爱是如此重要，世界万物都需要它。毫无例外，教育也需要爱。我认为，充满爱的教育才是真正的教育。</p> <p class="ql-block"> First, I will introduce myself briefly. I'm an English teacher, who has 17 years' teaching experience. I love my occupation,love my class and love my students. I'm devoted to my education career. I hold the belief that without love, education is not successful. So I always put love into education.</p><p class="ql-block"> 首先，我将简单介绍一下我自己。我是一名英语教师，有17年的教学经验。我爱我的职业，爱我的班级，爱我的学生。我忠诚于我的教育事业。我相信，没有爱，教育就不会成功。所以我总是把爱投入到教育中。</p> <p class="ql-block"> Here is a real story I want to share with you. There is a girl named XiaoXue in my class. She is a happy, lively and outgoing girl. She is an excellent student popular with the classmates and teachers.However,recently she has changed a lot. I found she was silent and depressed. She was absent-minded in class and unwilling to get involved in the class activities. After class, she didn't like talking with others, always staying alone. What's the most important is that her grades have slipped down rapidly. Why is she so abnormal? What happened to her? I must figure it out and help her out.</p><p class="ql-block"> 我想跟大家分享一个真实的故事。我班上有一个叫晓雪的女孩。她是一个快乐，活泼和外向的女孩。她是一个很受同学和老师欢迎的优秀学生。然而，最近她改变了很多。我发现她沉默而沮丧。上课心不在焉，不愿意参加课堂活动。课后，她不喜欢和别人说话，总是一个人呆着。最重要的是她的成绩下滑得很快。她为什么会如此反常?她发生了什么事?我必须弄清楚去帮她。</p> <p class="ql-block"> So one day after school I called her to my office, and we had a long chat. I asked her what had happened cautiously , but at first she was unwilling to express herself. I told her there was nothing unchangeable as long as we changed our mindset. Eventually she told me everything. She used tohave a happy family, but one month ago,her parents divorced. All that happened was her father' fault, so she hated him very much. Now she lives with her elderly grandparents. She feels lonely and helpless.</p><p class="ql-block"> 所以有一天放学后，我把她叫到我的办公室，我们聊了很久。我小心翼翼地问她发生了什么事，但一开始她不愿说出自己的想法。我告诉她，只要我们改变心态，就没有什么是不可改变的。最后她告诉我一切。她原本有一个幸福的家庭，但是一个月前，她的父母离婚了。所发生的一切都是她父亲的错，所以她非常恨他。现在她和年迈的祖父母住在一起。她感到孤独和无助。</p> <p class="ql-block"> Hearing her suffering, I was deeply sorry. I constantly encouraged her, telling her both her parents loved her and she was not alone. She should change her attitude to her parents and life. Although we couldn't master adult's affairs, we could master our life. Facing difficulties and setbacks, we can choose a right way to solve them rather than escape. Only if we take a positive attitude to life, life will give back what we need. After my patient instruction, she seemed to see the light.</p><p class="ql-block"> 听到她的遭遇，我感到非常难过。我不断地鼓励她，告诉她，她的父母都是爱她的，她并不是一人。她应该改变她对父母和生活的态度。虽然我们不能掌控大人的事情，但我们可以掌控自己的生活。面对困难和挫折，我们可以选择一个正确的方式来解决他们，而不是逃避。只有我们用积极的态度对待生活，生活才会回报我们所需要的。在我耐心地教导下，她似乎有所悟。</p> <p class="ql-block"> After that long conversation, I found her great change. That sweet and lovely girl came back. I felt relieved. One day I opened my book and to my surprise, a note was in it, saying: thanks for your love and help, you are my sunshine. I instantly felt so moved and warm, took up the book and walked into the classroom, smiling...</p><p class="ql-block"> Just as the saying goes: without love, there is no education.</p><p class="ql-block"> Thank you for your listening.</p><p class="ql-block"> 经过那次长时间的交谈，我发现她有了很大的改变。那个甜美可爱的女孩回来了。我觉得松了一口气。一天我打开书，令我吃惊的是，里面有一张纸条，上面写着:谢谢你的爱和帮助，你是我的阳光。我顿时感到特别感动和温暖，拿起书，微笑着走进教室……</p><p class="ql-block"> 俗话说:没有爱，就没有教育。</p><p class="ql-block"> 感谢大家的聆听！</p>