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为维护学生身心健康,创建平安校园,预防校园欺凌事件发生,提高青少年法律意识、安全意识和自我保护能力,营造和谐的育人氛围,2021年5月19日下午,北海市中日友谊中学邀请银海区检察院检察官郭耀海走进校园,为师生及家长带来了以“珍爱生命,拒绝校园欺凌”为主题的法治讲座。
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一直以来,学校高度重视学生的身心健康,通过开展法治进校园、防欺凌主题班会、防欺凌黑板报评比、学生心理辅导等系列活动,强化宣传力度,密切家校沟通,形成家、校、社区育人合力,提高学生法治观念,增强辨别是非和自我保护、自我防范能力,筑牢安全屏障,为未成年人健康成长保驾护航!
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您好!
2020年10月17日,未成年人保护法修订案经十三届全国人大常委会第二十二次会议表决通过,自2021年6月1日起施行。新修订的《未成年人保护法》明确界定了学生欺凌,是指发生在学生之间,一方蓄意或者恶意通过肢体、语言及网络等手段实施欺压、侮辱,造成另一方人身伤害、财产损失或者精神损害的行为。
近年来校园暴力呈现低龄化、群体性、网络化特点,女生之间的暴力逐渐增多。有专家分析,这其实是长期积淀的社会问题——家庭教育缺失的外露。有以下几个原因:
原因1:过分溺爱,孩子唯我独尊。
原因2:缺少关爱,心理灰暗。有些爸妈忙于生活,忽略了对孩子的沟通和心理辅导。
原因3:学生法制观念薄弱。
原因4:对影视、动画、游戏的模仿。
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一、不要溺爱孩子。家长的过度溺爱容易使孩子养成凡事以自我为中心的坏习惯,耐挫能力差,滋生任性、骄横等不良心理,容易成为欺凌者。
二、多与孩子沟通,尊重、关心孩子。父母是孩子成长路上最重要最亲密的人,无论工作再忙,每天也要抽出时间与孩子沟通、交流,注意培养孩子的同情心和换位思考能力,塑造孩子乐观向上、开朗活泼的性格。
三、切忌打骂孩子。当孩子犯错时,要注意耐心说教、正面引导,棍棒教育除了伤害身体,更会给孩子带来心理上的创伤,容易产生恐惧感、遗弃感甚至是逆反心理。经常挨打的孩子,要么具有胆小懦弱的性格,容易成为被欺凌者;要么具有乖张暴戾的性格,容易成为欺凌者。
四、注重言传身教。父母是孩子的第一任老师,言谈举止、性格特点都会对孩子产生长远的影响。尽量不要在孩子面前争吵、抱怨、说脏话、发脾气甚至动粗打人,尽量少饮酒、不饮酒,不参与赌博,不沉迷于手机、网络,更不能带孩子到酒吧、KTV、麻将馆等娱乐场所,避免孩子受到不良行为的影响。要培养孩子从小树立正确的人生观、价值观。
五、培养孩子的日常良好习惯。鼓励孩子多参加集体活动、户外活动,多与同龄人交往、沟通,注意培养孩子的情商和良好的人际交往能力。要防范孩子沉迷网络,尤其是避免其接触含有暴力、色情内容的影视作品、视频直播和网络游戏。要防止孩子夜不归宿、饮酒、携带匕首、弹簧刀、藏刀等。
六、定期与老师、其他孩子家长沟通。及时掌握孩子的在校情况尤其是交友情况,避免孩子与一些“不良少年”接触甚至拉帮结伙。
七、正确引导孩子。家长平时可以结合一些常见的校园欺凌现象来引导孩子,进行预防教育。千万不能诱导孩子片面出手,或者为了不被欺负而以暴制暴。同时也要教会孩子一些自我保护的方法,一旦遇事能够从容应对。
八、加强法治教育。注重培养孩子的法律意识、安全意识,自我防范意识,避免受到不法侵害。
九、细致观察,正确应对。根据调查,越来越多的校园欺凌事件伴随着较长的持续性和较强的隐蔽性。家长平时要细心观察孩子的行为举止和情绪波动。如有以下情形出现,请您充分考虑孩子遭受欺凌的可能性。
家长一旦发现孩子可能遭受欺凌,首先要克制情绪、保持冷静。要鼓励孩子勇敢的说出来,并认真告诉孩子“这不是你的错,谢谢你把这些告诉我。”及时与校方沟通,同时注意收集、保留相关证据,必要时可选择报警,运用法律武器保护孩子。尽量避免与欺凌者或其家长单独接触,以免事态恶化。如果孩子因遭受欺凌而出现心理问题,应及时向心理专家求助。
1、身体表面无故出现各种瘀伤、抓伤等人为伤痕;在温热天气里也经常穿着长袖衣裤,很可能是想遮掩伤痕。
2、频繁丢失一些个人物品,如首饰、文具、玩具等,或者衣服、书包等物品总是有破损。
3、回家时经常带着伤心、沮丧甚至是哭鼻子的情绪,而且突然变得孤僻、怕生、特别依赖家长、不愿接触其他小伙伴。
4、自伤、自残甚至是自杀倾向。
5、不愿意上学,或者经常无故逃学、装病请假。
6、频繁的失眠、噩梦、尿床,等等。
学生安全工作需要各方面尽心尽责、密切配合、齐抓共管。让我们携起手来,共同为孩子的平安健康成长而努力!最后,祝您的孩子平安、健康、快乐!
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一直以来,学校高度重视学生的身心健康,通过开展法治进校园、防欺凌主题班会、防欺凌黑板报评比、学生心理辅导等系列活动,强化宣传力度,密切家校沟通,形成家、校、社区育人合力,提高学生法治观念,增强辨别是非和自我保护、自我防范能力,筑牢安全屏障,为未成年人健康成长保驾护航!
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您好!
2020年10月17日,未成年人保护法修订案经十三届全国人大常委会第二十二次会议表决通过,自2021年6月1日起施行。新修订的《未成年人保护法》明确界定了学生欺凌,是指发生在学生之间,一方蓄意或者恶意通过肢体、语言及网络等手段实施欺压、侮辱,造成另一方人身伤害、财产损失或者精神损害的行为。
近年来校园暴力呈现低龄化、群体性、网络化特点,女生之间的暴力逐渐增多。有专家分析,这其实是长期积淀的社会问题——家庭教育缺失的外露。有以下几个原因:
原因1:过分溺爱,孩子唯我独尊。
原因2:缺少关爱,心理灰暗。有些爸妈忙于生活,忽略了对孩子的沟通和心理辅导。
原因3:学生法制观念薄弱。
原因4:对影视、动画、游戏的模仿。
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一、不要溺爱孩子。家长的过度溺爱容易使孩子养成凡事以自我为中心的坏习惯,耐挫能力差,滋生任性、骄横等不良心理,容易成为欺凌者。
二、多与孩子沟通,尊重、关心孩子。父母是孩子成长路上最重要最亲密的人,无论工作再忙,每天也要抽出时间与孩子沟通、交流,注意培养孩子的同情心和换位思考能力,塑造孩子乐观向上、开朗活泼的性格。
三、切忌打骂孩子。当孩子犯错时,要注意耐心说教、正面引导,棍棒教育除了伤害身体,更会给孩子带来心理上的创伤,容易产生恐惧感、遗弃感甚至是逆反心理。经常挨打的孩子,要么具有胆小懦弱的性格,容易成为被欺凌者;要么具有乖张暴戾的性格,容易成为欺凌者。
四、注重言传身教。父母是孩子的第一任老师,言谈举止、性格特点都会对孩子产生长远的影响。尽量不要在孩子面前争吵、抱怨、说脏话、发脾气甚至动粗打人,尽量少饮酒、不饮酒,不参与赌博,不沉迷于手机、网络,更不能带孩子到酒吧、KTV、麻将馆等娱乐场所,避免孩子受到不良行为的影响。要培养孩子从小树立正确的人生观、价值观。
五、培养孩子的日常良好习惯。鼓励孩子多参加集体活动、户外活动,多与同龄人交往、沟通,注意培养孩子的情商和良好的人际交往能力。要防范孩子沉迷网络,尤其是避免其接触含有暴力、色情内容的影视作品、视频直播和网络游戏。要防止孩子夜不归宿、饮酒、携带匕首、弹簧刀、藏刀等。
六、定期与老师、其他孩子家长沟通。及时掌握孩子的在校情况尤其是交友情况,避免孩子与一些“不良少年”接触甚至拉帮结伙。
七、正确引导孩子。家长平时可以结合一些常见的校园欺凌现象来引导孩子,进行预防教育。千万不能诱导孩子片面出手,或者为了不被欺负而以暴制暴。同时也要教会孩子一些自我保护的方法,一旦遇事能够从容应对。
八、加强法治教育。注重培养孩子的法律意识、安全意识,自我防范意识,避免受到不法侵害。
九、细致观察,正确应对。根据调查,越来越多的校园欺凌事件伴随着较长的持续性和较强的隐蔽性。家长平时要细心观察孩子的行为举止和情绪波动。如有以下情形出现,请您充分考虑孩子遭受欺凌的可能性。
家长一旦发现孩子可能遭受欺凌,首先要克制情绪、保持冷静。要鼓励孩子勇敢的说出来,并认真告诉孩子“这不是你的错,谢谢你把这些告诉我。”及时与校方沟通,同时注意收集、保留相关证据,必要时可选择报警,运用法律武器保护孩子。尽量避免与欺凌者或其家长单独接触,以免事态恶化。如果孩子因遭受欺凌而出现心理问题,应及时向心理专家求助。
1、身体表面无故出现各种瘀伤、抓伤等人为伤痕;在温热天气里也经常穿着长袖衣裤,很可能是想遮掩伤痕。
2、频繁丢失一些个人物品,如首饰、文具、玩具等,或者衣服、书包等物品总是有破损。
3、回家时经常带着伤心、沮丧甚至是哭鼻子的情绪,而且突然变得孤僻、怕生、特别依赖家长、不愿接触其他小伙伴。
4、自伤、自残甚至是自杀倾向。
5、不愿意上学,或者经常无故逃学、装病请假。
6、频繁的失眠、噩梦、尿床,等等。
学生安全工作需要各方面尽心尽责、密切配合、齐抓共管。让我们携起手来,共同为孩子的平安健康成长而努力!最后,祝您的孩子平安、健康、快乐!
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审核:王国海
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