老祖宗留下的传统礼仪不能丢!

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<p mpa-paragraph-type="body">无规矩,不成方圆。无论时代怎么变迁,有些老祖宗传下来的规矩,是中华文明的精华,不能丢。这些老规矩,你还记得多少?</h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>01、吃鱼不能说“翻”。</strong></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">——翻鱼和翻船在部分方言中是谐音。应该把鱼从头开始倒转一面,叫做“掉头”,安全回来的意思。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>02、家里来客人了,添饭时一定不能说:还要饭吗?</strong><br></br></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">——客人走后家里大人肯定要一通叨叨你!说过多少次添饭添饭,你才要饭的呢!</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>03、不许用筷子敲盘碗。</strong><br></br></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">——大人会说你像什么样子!乞丐吗?</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>04、过年下饺子皮破了不能说“破”。</strong><br></br></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">——说“破”不吉利,尤其是过年。要说饺子“挣”了。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>05、筷子不许立插米饭中。</strong><br></br></h3></br><p mpa-paragraph-type="body">——因为象征香炉,只有死刑犯的辞阳饭才这样插筷子。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>06、吃饭不能吧唧嘴,喝汤不许吸溜。</strong><br></br></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>07、全家人一起吃饭,长辈不动筷,晚辈不能动。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong><strong>08、</strong>长辈做正中,其他人依次而坐,一般来说夫妻要挨着。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong><strong>09、有的孩子得宠,可以挨着老人,但座椅不可高于长辈。</strong></strong><strong><strong></strong></strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>10、吃饭时,手要扶碗,不许一只手放在桌下。</strong><br></br></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>11、吃饭时,在盘子里乱翻,会被大人敲手。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>12、吃饭坐哪就不能再换,端着碗满处跑那是要饭的。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong><strong>13</strong></strong><strong>、夹菜不过盘中线。</strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>14、</strong>不许吃饭咬着筷子;</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>15、</strong>吃菜不许满盘子乱挑,只能夹眼前的;</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>16、</strong>不许反着手给人倒水或倒酒;</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>17、吃完饭的,一定要说“请慢用”,否则就说这个人没有教养。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>18、家来客人,要谨记:茶七,饭八,酒满。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>19、递、接东西时,要用双手,尤其给长辈。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body">20、不许斜着眼看人,老话说眼斜心不正。</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>21、递剪子时要手攥剪子尖儿,把剪刀柄让给对方。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body">22、敲门应该先敲一下,再连敲两下,急促拍门属于报丧!</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body">23、见长辈要称呼“您”</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body">24、不许抖落腿,所谓男抖贱女抖浪</h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>25、客人在,不可以扫地</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>26、不许叉着腿儿。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>27、不许抖落腿儿。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>28、不许当众喳呼。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>29、做客不能坐人家的床。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>30、做客不许进没有人的房间。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>31、站不倚门、话不高声;</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p mpa-paragraph-type="body"><strong>32、回家要跟长辈打招呼,出门要说一声。</strong><strong></strong></h3></br> <p class="ql-block"><b>其实,老规矩用一个字概括就是:礼</b></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><b>充满着古老的人文关怀与换位思考。</b></p> <p class="ql-block"><b>圣贤教育</b></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><b>爱是教育的灵魂,没有爱就没有教育。好老师要用爱培育爱、激发爱、传播爱。</b></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p> </strong></strong></h3></br><h3><strong><strong><strong>弘扬传统文化,传播中华孝道,</strong></strong></strong></h3></br><h3><strong><strong><strong>广结天下善缘,助力全球华人!</strong></strong></strong></h3></br><h3><strong><strong>