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尊敬的家长们:
大家好!如果说,习惯养成是“看得见的准备”。那么心理准备,这一幼小衔接里看不见的“功课”,我们应该怎么做呢?孩子从幼儿园步入小学,是幼儿身心发展的一次重大转折,他们进入了心理和生理发展的新阶段。无论对孩子还是家长,都是一次考验。那么我们应该怎样给予孩子有力的情感支持,与孩子一起更平稳更顺利地完成角色的转变呢。本期,让我们走进“心理准备篇”,一同开启“幼小衔接“准备的“心理之门”。
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家长可以这样做:
家长要善于捕捉生活中的教育契机,引导、激发幼儿入学的兴趣和好奇。
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●多些鼓励和赞赏。在日常的沟通和交流中,多给幼儿赞扬和认可,让其保持积极向上的情绪。家长可以说“今天玩具收拾得很整洁哦,真像一名小学生。”让幼儿从家长的口吻中,感受到长大的自豪。出现问题时要和孩子一起面对,并给予积极的暗示,如:“宝贝真有毅力啊”、“你做得不错,但如果……可以更好”,帮助孩子顺利度过这个成长过程。
●爸爸妈妈要多向孩子传递正面的信息。比如“步入小学你会学到更多的本领”、“你会交到更多的朋友”、“你长大了,就要成为一个小学生了”等等,调动孩子的积极性。这种积极面对的心态,不仅有助于孩子适应即将到来的小学生活,对于他以后面对人生的更多状况,都是有利的。
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●家长可以和小朋友一起上网查询即将入读学校的资料,学校的历史和特色;在做好个人防护的前提下,利用周末或是散步的时间,带幼儿到小学附近转一转,看看小学的大门、教学楼、操场;带幼儿欣赏学校宣传栏里对学校的介绍及获得的荣誉、各种活动剪影、小学生的各类作品等。支持幼儿用手机将自己看到的、感兴趣的地方拍摄下来,回家时常翻看,让幼儿对成为一名小学生有所期待。
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●很多家长都觉得我是家长我说了算,其实这不仅会打击孩子的自信心和独立思考的能力,还会让孩子产生依赖心理,遇到问题自己不去思考总是想向大人求助或是逃避问题。幼升小过程中培养孩子独立思考和解决问题的能力也同样尤为关键。
●如果孩子有一些奇思妙想,我们可以饶有兴趣地坐下来听听他的想法,而不是去否定他这个不存在或是不可能实现。倾听孩子的心声就要让我们做到以平等心与孩子们交流沟通,孩子同样能够感受到来自大人的关怀和尊重,自然懂得去尊重他人,与小朋友们和谐友好相处。
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●创造机会,让孩子为自己所做的事情负责。通过实践体验才能提高自身的责任心。所以交给他们做的事情,哪怕是很小的事情,爸爸妈妈也要有检查督促以及对结果的评价。哪怕只是倒一次垃圾,洗一双袜子。终于值守时,应给予表扬鼓励,失责时应给予相应的评价并指出不足之处。只有这样才能培养孩子持之以恒认真负责的好习惯。
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●自己的事情自己做,培养孩子的生活自理能力。相信孩子,生活小事让孩子自己来。像穿拖衣鞋洗漱清洁,铺床叠被,整理文具,开关门窗,扫地擦桌,等生活技能,都是入学前孩子应该做到的。当孩子在家长的鼓励示范和协助下,最后独立完成时,我长大了,我很能干,这样的美好感觉油然而生。
●合理安排自己的生活,让孩子有自主感。感受自己是生命的主人,告诉孩子小学生应该学会自理,自己安排自己的生活。比如晚上睡觉前孩子可以自行安排活动内容,决定各项活动的时间的长短和先后,只要孩子的安排合理,家长就应给予尊重。
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●家长出现的焦虑情绪会影响孩子心理,使他产生一种不安全感,作为准小学生家长,应平稳心态,将孩子入小学作为成长的必然阶段,放松心情淡定面对,可以向周围家中有小学生的亲友询问和请教,了解小学生的学习与生活,以积极的心态和孩子一起迎接入学。
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●不拿“别人家的孩子”与自己的孩子做比较,能客观分析自己孩子的特点,对可能出现的问题做到心中有数。同时,要让孩子感受到您的信任,这样会让他更有信心和力量去面对新的挑战。正视孩子的成长,摆正自己的心态,了解孩子的心理需求,才能实现幼小衔接顺利过渡,助力孩子的学习与发展!
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●通过游戏、日常生活引导孩子积累知识经验的同时,更注重其学习能力、品质的养成,为科学入学准备蓄势。适当的知识储备能帮助孩子顺利衔接,但家长应把握学习的广度、深度以及学习方式,切忌拔苗助长式地灌输与训练,将知识储备等同于学习能力,要求孩子过度学习。
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初审:徐婉婷
终审:陈丽香
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大家好!如果说,习惯养成是“看得见的准备”。那么心理准备,这一幼小衔接里看不见的“功课”,我们应该怎么做呢?孩子从幼儿园步入小学,是幼儿身心发展的一次重大转折,他们进入了心理和生理发展的新阶段。无论对孩子还是家长,都是一次考验。那么我们应该怎样给予孩子有力的情感支持,与孩子一起更平稳更顺利地完成角色的转变呢。本期,让我们走进“心理准备篇”,一同开启“幼小衔接“准备的“心理之门”。
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家长可以这样做:
家长要善于捕捉生活中的教育契机,引导、激发幼儿入学的兴趣和好奇。
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●多些鼓励和赞赏。在日常的沟通和交流中,多给幼儿赞扬和认可,让其保持积极向上的情绪。家长可以说“今天玩具收拾得很整洁哦,真像一名小学生。”让幼儿从家长的口吻中,感受到长大的自豪。出现问题时要和孩子一起面对,并给予积极的暗示,如:“宝贝真有毅力啊”、“你做得不错,但如果……可以更好”,帮助孩子顺利度过这个成长过程。
●爸爸妈妈要多向孩子传递正面的信息。比如“步入小学你会学到更多的本领”、“你会交到更多的朋友”、“你长大了,就要成为一个小学生了”等等,调动孩子的积极性。这种积极面对的心态,不仅有助于孩子适应即将到来的小学生活,对于他以后面对人生的更多状况,都是有利的。
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●家长可以和小朋友一起上网查询即将入读学校的资料,学校的历史和特色;在做好个人防护的前提下,利用周末或是散步的时间,带幼儿到小学附近转一转,看看小学的大门、教学楼、操场;带幼儿欣赏学校宣传栏里对学校的介绍及获得的荣誉、各种活动剪影、小学生的各类作品等。支持幼儿用手机将自己看到的、感兴趣的地方拍摄下来,回家时常翻看,让幼儿对成为一名小学生有所期待。
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●很多家长都觉得我是家长我说了算,其实这不仅会打击孩子的自信心和独立思考的能力,还会让孩子产生依赖心理,遇到问题自己不去思考总是想向大人求助或是逃避问题。幼升小过程中培养孩子独立思考和解决问题的能力也同样尤为关键。
●如果孩子有一些奇思妙想,我们可以饶有兴趣地坐下来听听他的想法,而不是去否定他这个不存在或是不可能实现。倾听孩子的心声就要让我们做到以平等心与孩子们交流沟通,孩子同样能够感受到来自大人的关怀和尊重,自然懂得去尊重他人,与小朋友们和谐友好相处。
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●创造机会,让孩子为自己所做的事情负责。通过实践体验才能提高自身的责任心。所以交给他们做的事情,哪怕是很小的事情,爸爸妈妈也要有检查督促以及对结果的评价。哪怕只是倒一次垃圾,洗一双袜子。终于值守时,应给予表扬鼓励,失责时应给予相应的评价并指出不足之处。只有这样才能培养孩子持之以恒认真负责的好习惯。
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●自己的事情自己做,培养孩子的生活自理能力。相信孩子,生活小事让孩子自己来。像穿拖衣鞋洗漱清洁,铺床叠被,整理文具,开关门窗,扫地擦桌,等生活技能,都是入学前孩子应该做到的。当孩子在家长的鼓励示范和协助下,最后独立完成时,我长大了,我很能干,这样的美好感觉油然而生。
●合理安排自己的生活,让孩子有自主感。感受自己是生命的主人,告诉孩子小学生应该学会自理,自己安排自己的生活。比如晚上睡觉前孩子可以自行安排活动内容,决定各项活动的时间的长短和先后,只要孩子的安排合理,家长就应给予尊重。
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●家长出现的焦虑情绪会影响孩子心理,使他产生一种不安全感,作为准小学生家长,应平稳心态,将孩子入小学作为成长的必然阶段,放松心情淡定面对,可以向周围家中有小学生的亲友询问和请教,了解小学生的学习与生活,以积极的心态和孩子一起迎接入学。
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●不拿“别人家的孩子”与自己的孩子做比较,能客观分析自己孩子的特点,对可能出现的问题做到心中有数。同时,要让孩子感受到您的信任,这样会让他更有信心和力量去面对新的挑战。正视孩子的成长,摆正自己的心态,了解孩子的心理需求,才能实现幼小衔接顺利过渡,助力孩子的学习与发展!
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●通过游戏、日常生活引导孩子积累知识经验的同时,更注重其学习能力、品质的养成,为科学入学准备蓄势。适当的知识储备能帮助孩子顺利衔接,但家长应把握学习的广度、深度以及学习方式,切忌拔苗助长式地灌输与训练,将知识储备等同于学习能力,要求孩子过度学习。
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