부모에 대한 원망

Limbia

<p class="ql-block">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;🌹부모에&nbsp;대한&nbsp;원망🌹</p><p class="ql-block">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;(보기&nbsp;싫으면&nbsp;떠나라)</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">어린&nbsp;시절&nbsp;부모가&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">싸움을&nbsp;많이&nbsp;하는&nbsp;가정에서</p><p class="ql-block">불우하게&nbsp;성장한&nbsp;자식들은</p><p class="ql-block">부모에&nbsp;대해서</p><p class="ql-block">정이&nbsp;떨어진다는&nbsp;말을&nbsp;많이&nbsp;합니다.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">성장하는&nbsp;환경이&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모로부터&nbsp;도움받지&nbsp;못하고</p><p class="ql-block">불우하게&nbsp;성장을&nbsp;하였다면...</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">그것은&nbsp;하느님께서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모&nbsp;자식&nbsp;간의&nbsp;정을&nbsp;떨어뜨려서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">자식이&nbsp;부모로부터 멀리&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">떨어지도록&nbsp;하여 혼자&nbsp;살아가도록&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">환경을&nbsp;만들어주기&nbsp;위하여 ,</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">부모로&nbsp;하여금&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">정떨어지는&nbsp;행동을 하도록&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">만들었다는&nbsp;사실을&nbsp;알아야&nbsp;했었다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">자식&nbsp;앞에서&nbsp;부모가&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">싸움을&nbsp;많이&nbsp;한다는&nbsp;것은</p><p class="ql-block">자식이&nbsp;그것을&nbsp;보고&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">멀리&nbsp;떠나라고&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">정을&nbsp;떨어뜨리기&nbsp;위해</p><p class="ql-block">부모가&nbsp;상대자&nbsp;역할을&nbsp;하였던&nbsp;것이다.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">그것을&nbsp;알고&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">자식은&nbsp;멀리&nbsp;떠나게&nbsp;될&nbsp;때&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모는&nbsp;그때부터&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">점차적으로&nbsp;싸움이&nbsp;줄어들면서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">잘&nbsp;살아가는&nbsp;것을&nbsp;볼&nbsp;수&nbsp;있습니다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">그런데&nbsp;자식이&nbsp;멀리&nbsp;떠나게&nbsp;되면</p><p class="ql-block">아버지로부터&nbsp;맞는&nbsp;엄마가&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">걱정이&nbsp;되어&nbsp;떠나지&nbsp;못하고&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">머무적&nbsp;거리고&nbsp;있었다면...</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">엄마는&nbsp;더&nbsp;많이&nbsp;맞게&nbsp;되면서</p><p class="ql-block">부모는&nbsp;더욱더&nbsp;싸움을&nbsp;많이&nbsp;하고,&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">집안이&nbsp;어려워지게&nbsp;되었던&nbsp;것입니다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">부모의&nbsp;싸움이&nbsp;보기&nbsp;싫다면&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">떠나야&nbsp;하는&nbsp;것이&nbsp;대자연&nbsp;법칙이다.</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">떠날&nbsp;사람이&nbsp;떠났을&nbsp;경우&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모의&nbsp;싸움이&nbsp;줄어들면서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">가정의&nbsp;어려움이&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">점점&nbsp;풀리게&nbsp;되어&nbsp;있지만...</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">그렇지&nbsp;않고&nbsp;자식이&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모를&nbsp;생각하는&nbsp;척하면서</p><p class="ql-block">떠나지&nbsp;못하거나,&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">멀리&nbsp;떨어져&nbsp;있어도</p><p class="ql-block">전화로&nbsp;연결이&nbsp;되어&nbsp;있다면&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">그&nbsp;가정은&nbsp;점점&nbsp;어려워지게&nbsp;됩니다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">집안이&nbsp;어려워지는&nbsp;이유는</p><p class="ql-block">떠나야&nbsp;할&nbsp;사람이&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">떠나지&nbsp;않고&nbsp;있기&nbsp;때문에&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">집안에&nbsp;어려워지게&nbsp;되었다는&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">사실을&nbsp;알아야&nbsp;하겠습니다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">집안을&nbsp;편안하게&nbsp;하고&nbsp;싶다면&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">단절하고&nbsp;홀로&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">자신의&nbsp;인생을&nbsp;키워나가야&nbsp;한다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">그렇게&nbsp;하지&nbsp;않고&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">어떻게든&nbsp;연결이&nbsp;되어&nbsp;있었다면&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">직장&nbsp;생활이나,&nbsp;자영업을&nbsp;하든&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">무엇인가&nbsp;이룰&nbsp;것&nbsp;같은&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">시점이&nbsp;되었을&nbsp;때&nbsp;...</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">집에서&nbsp;연락이&nbsp;와&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">어떠한&nbsp;말을&nbsp;하여&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">기분을&nbsp;떨어지게&nbsp;만들어&nbsp;버려...&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">자기&nbsp;인생을&nbsp;살아가지&nbsp;못하도록 </p><p class="ql-block">만들게&nbsp;된다는&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">사실을&nbsp;알아야&nbsp;할&nbsp;것이다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">집안과&nbsp;단절하고&nbsp;나서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">자기&nbsp;힘을&nbsp;키워서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">어느&nbsp;정도&nbsp;힘이&nbsp;올라섰을&nbsp;때&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모를&nbsp;도와주어도&nbsp;늦지&nbsp;않으므로&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">자신의&nbsp;힘을&nbsp;키우는데&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">노력을&nbsp;해야&nbsp;한다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">힘없는&nbsp;사람은&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모를&nbsp;돕고&nbsp;싶어도</p><p class="ql-block">도울&nbsp;수&nbsp;있는&nbsp;방법이&nbsp;없기&nbsp;때문에</p><p class="ql-block">부모는&nbsp;힘이&nbsp;들고&nbsp;어려워도&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">자기들끼리&nbsp;자신들의&nbsp;인생을&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">살아가게&nbsp;되어&nbsp;있으므로,</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">내&nbsp;할&nbsp;일을&nbsp;하면서&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">힘을&nbsp;키워&nbsp;나가다&nbsp;보면&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">어느&nbsp;정도&nbsp;힘이&nbsp;형성되었을&nbsp;때&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">돌아봐도&nbsp;늦지&nbsp;않습니다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block">그렇게&nbsp;부모와&nbsp;단절하여&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">생활하다고&nbsp;보면</p><p class="ql-block">나도&nbsp;좋아지고&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">부모도&nbsp;좋아지게&nbsp;된다는&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block">사실을&nbsp;알게&nbsp;되겠습니다.&nbsp;</p><p class="ql-block"><br></p><p class="ql-block"><br></p>