<p>In our daily life, in the studay, in the work, we have some special friends, they popular with other person, they can turn things around themself.( look at Christin, she is so popular,every one want to date with her, and saw Andy,he is so lucky ,he got admiration from boss again, be exaggerate.</p><p>Would you want to be one of them?</p><p>Most people would like to be popular with others, but not everyone can achieve this goal. What is the secret to popularity? </p><p>In fact, it is very simple. The first step is to improve our appearance. We should always make sure that we stay in good shape and dress well. When we are healthy and well-groomed, we will not only look better but also feel better. In addition, we should smile and appear friendly. After all, our facial expression is an important part of our appearance. If we can do this, people will be attracted to our good looks and impressed by our confidence.</p><p>The second important step is developing more consideration for others. We should always put others first and place their interests before our own. It's also important to be good listeners; in this way people will feel comfortable enough to confide in us. However, no matter what we do, we must not gossip. Above all, we must remember to be ourselves, not phonies.</p><p>The third step is value commitment. I firmly believe that taking commitments seriously is paramount for leading a productive life。We make the commitment to other people or to ourself. We usually make the commitment to others, such like we attend a meeting or we date with some one, we should should up on time, besides,if we promise some people's business, we should do it, if we can't, we should explain it fully.The commitment to ourself, if we make plan, we should try to achieve the goal, can't abanbon easiar when met setback. Value commitments in time, people will make friends with us.</p><p><br></p><p>作者：饭饭的读书笔记</p><p>链接：https://www.jianshu.com/p/9a6068d8e686</p><p>来源：简书</p><p>著作权归作者所有。商业转载请联系作者获得授权，非商业转载请注明出处。</p>