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3月4日是三宽家长开课的第三天,此次课程是由萧斌臣、张旭玲老师主讲《家庭教育的“本”与“末”》,就如萧老师所说,现在很多的家庭教育,已经本末倒置了,家长们关注的重点只在孩子的学习上,忘了给孩子松口气,忘了教孩子怎么做人,忘记怎么去引导孩子,忘记教给孩子最真的东西。给孩子一片自由的天空,让他自由的翱翔吧!
萧老师的课给我们的家长们敲了一个警钟,我们要重新的反思一下自己了!
下面,我们再来分享一篇这位家长写的心得体会吧!
《家庭教育的“本”与“末”》
小四班 邓梓峻
今晚的课程由高铁的霸坐男引发高学历却没有素质的霸坐案例,从而理出家庭教育的本质和重要性!
家庭教育的“本”主要包括以下四方面:
1.遵守规则。
规则包括:社会规则,学校规则,以及家庭规则。家庭规则要服从于社会规则。
要从小培养孩子良好的规则行为习惯。从而让孩子更加容易适应社会规则,成为一个合格的社会人。
2.懂得考虑别人
就是学会付出,懂得处理人际关系,会帮助别人以及有合作精神。这样的人可能学习成绩不是特别优秀,但也能在社会有立足之地。为他人服务的心越大,这样路就可以走得越长。会处理人际关系的孩子,一样很出彩。
3.懂得做事
做事就是培养孩子的工作能力,孩子的工作能力就是基本的生存能力。
工作中需要的能力:计划性,条理性,应变性,这些都可以在基本的家庭教育中实现,老师举了个例子:就是家长给了2块钱叫孩子去楼下便利店买白糖,结果因为白糖涨价了,孩子就空手回来了!这就可以锻炼孩子的应变能力。家庭教育的“本”就是和生存有关的一切事务,规则都可以称之为“本”
4.身心健康
每个行业都有金字塔人物,而这些人基本都是体格健壮,精力充沛的。而现在的孩子经常沉迷手机,导致体育运动时间缺乏,形成“豆芽儿”。所以要多建议家长要多带孩子进行户外体育活动。
此外,除了身体健康,老师也提出了精神和心理健康。现在大学都强调“防跳”就是防止大学生跳楼。一方面是家长的焦虑给孩子太大的压力。另外一方面就是孩子自身内心的压力。所以要关注孩子的身心健康也是家庭教育的根本。
家庭教育的本就是构筑结实的底部,让孩子充分发挥上限,成为一个合格的社会人。按照国家培养人才的目标,培养一个懂规则,会考虑他人,懂做事以及身心健康的孩子。
总结:学了这个课程,让我懂得了在家庭生活中需培养孩子基本的生活自理能力,养成良好的行为习惯,要遵守规则,懂得考虑他人的感受,设身处地的为他人着想,成为一个内心丰盈,身体健康的孩子。
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陪着孩子成长是我们作为家长的任务,也是我们学习的最好时期,当孩子大了,我们再去学习,是否就会晚了呢?
记得三宽家长学校的口号“家长好好学习,孩子天天向上”!
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萧老师的课给我们的家长们敲了一个警钟,我们要重新的反思一下自己了!
下面,我们再来分享一篇这位家长写的心得体会吧!
《家庭教育的“本”与“末”》
小四班 邓梓峻
今晚的课程由高铁的霸坐男引发高学历却没有素质的霸坐案例,从而理出家庭教育的本质和重要性!
家庭教育的“本”主要包括以下四方面:
1.遵守规则。
规则包括:社会规则,学校规则,以及家庭规则。家庭规则要服从于社会规则。
要从小培养孩子良好的规则行为习惯。从而让孩子更加容易适应社会规则,成为一个合格的社会人。
2.懂得考虑别人
就是学会付出,懂得处理人际关系,会帮助别人以及有合作精神。这样的人可能学习成绩不是特别优秀,但也能在社会有立足之地。为他人服务的心越大,这样路就可以走得越长。会处理人际关系的孩子,一样很出彩。
3.懂得做事
做事就是培养孩子的工作能力,孩子的工作能力就是基本的生存能力。
工作中需要的能力:计划性,条理性,应变性,这些都可以在基本的家庭教育中实现,老师举了个例子:就是家长给了2块钱叫孩子去楼下便利店买白糖,结果因为白糖涨价了,孩子就空手回来了!这就可以锻炼孩子的应变能力。家庭教育的“本”就是和生存有关的一切事务,规则都可以称之为“本”
4.身心健康
每个行业都有金字塔人物,而这些人基本都是体格健壮,精力充沛的。而现在的孩子经常沉迷手机,导致体育运动时间缺乏,形成“豆芽儿”。所以要多建议家长要多带孩子进行户外体育活动。
此外,除了身体健康,老师也提出了精神和心理健康。现在大学都强调“防跳”就是防止大学生跳楼。一方面是家长的焦虑给孩子太大的压力。另外一方面就是孩子自身内心的压力。所以要关注孩子的身心健康也是家庭教育的根本。
家庭教育的本就是构筑结实的底部,让孩子充分发挥上限,成为一个合格的社会人。按照国家培养人才的目标,培养一个懂规则,会考虑他人,懂做事以及身心健康的孩子。
总结:学了这个课程,让我懂得了在家庭生活中需培养孩子基本的生活自理能力,养成良好的行为习惯,要遵守规则,懂得考虑他人的感受,设身处地的为他人着想,成为一个内心丰盈,身体健康的孩子。
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陪着孩子成长是我们作为家长的任务,也是我们学习的最好时期,当孩子大了,我们再去学习,是否就会晚了呢?
记得三宽家长学校的口号“家长好好学习,孩子天天向上”!
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