<h3> 家庭教育寓于日常生活中，时时处处存在于家庭的每一瞬间，家长毫无掩饰的言谈举止时时刻刻被模仿，这种模仿对孩子的品格影响是潜移默化的，是在漫长的时间里毫无感觉地完成的。<br></h3> <h3> 这个在1999年央视播出的公益广告，虽然年代已久，却依然让我印象深刻！广告中的小男孩儿，受到母亲影响，学会了要孝敬长辈，让妈妈倍感欣慰。</h3> <h3> </h3> <h3> 不得不说，<font color="#ed2308"><b>最好的家教，就是父母首先成为</b></font><b><font color="#ed2308">一个优秀的人。</font></b></h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 19.776px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248);"> 知乎上有个问题：父母对孩子的三观形成，到底起到多大影响？有个答案，我记忆至今。</span><br></h3> <h5><ul><li><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; font-size: 19.776px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248);">“20多岁时，当我发现，我抱怨的内容，语气，神态，和我的家人一模一样的时候，我感到深深的无奈。”</span><br></li></ul></h5> <p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"> 父母的三观里，其实藏着孩子20岁后的样子。</span><span style="font-size: 0.48rem;">是</span><span style="font-size: 0.48rem;">的。父母的三观，从来都是一个家庭的三观，它会彼此传染，会对孩子言传身教。</span></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><br></span></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><br></span></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><strong style="font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><font color="#ed2308">每一个孩子，在成年后，都会或多或少变成父母的样子。</font></span></strong></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><strong style="font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><font color="#ed2308"><br></font></span></strong></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><strong style="font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><br></span></strong></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><b>↓↓↓↓↓↓</b><b style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">↓↓↓↓</b><b style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">↓↓↓↓↓↓</b><b style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">↓↓↓↓</b></h3> <h3 style="text-align: center;"><b style=""><font color="#167efb">自己没做好，却拼命逼孩子</font></b></h3> <h3><span style="font-size: 0.48rem; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; text-align: justify; white-space: normal;"> 你的健身器材在墙角扔了快十年，蜘蛛网都更新好几代了。你觉得很正常。</span>但是你儿子不练琴，你不能忍，你觉得他好过分。</h3> <h3><br></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-align: center; text-size-adjust: none; word-break: break-word; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><b style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); text-align: justify;">↓↓↓↓↓↓</b><b style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">↓↓↓↓</b><b style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">↓↓↓↓↓↓</b><b style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">↓↓↓↓</b><font color="#167efb"><br></font></span></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-align: center; text-size-adjust: none; word-break: break-word; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><font color="#167efb"><b>为人父母，身教永远比言传重要。</b></font></span></h3> <h3><br></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"> 孩子都不傻，都能在冥冥之中明辨真伪。所以他们更倾向于模仿家长的行为，而非听信他们口中的道理。</span><span style="font-size: 0.48rem;">你懒惰浮躁毛毛草草，你希望孩子勤奋自律样样都好，怎么可能？</span></h3><p style="margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; text-align: justify; word-break: break-word; color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"></span></h3><p style="text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0.666667rem; line-height: 0.76rem; text-size-adjust: none; word-break: break-word; font-family: "PingFang SC", Arial, "\\5FAE软雅黑", "\\5B8B体", simsun, sans-serif; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248); font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><strong style="font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><span style="line-height: 1; text-size-adjust: none; font-size: 0.48rem !important;"><font color="#ed2308">要求孩子之前，请先做好你自己。</font></span></strong></h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: "PT Serif", "Droid Serif", "Times New Roman", arial, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; white-space: normal;"> 原生家庭的环境氛围对于一个人的成长很重要。在未成年之前，没有自主生活能力，外界认知还不完善，处于生存的本能，必须依靠家长至亲，熟悉和模仿家长的生活和认知模式。</span>所以家长做“好榜样”，注重身教。父母为孩子做出榜样就是最好的教育，对孩子影响最深的是父母怎样做，其次才是孩子学会了什么。<br></h3> <h3> 在疫情面前，我们虽然可能失去暂时的自由，却获得了珍贵的陪伴孩子们的时光， 我们有很多事情可以做：</h3><h1 style="text-align: center;"><font color="#167efb"><b>和孩子一起学习！</b></font></h1> <h1 style="text-align: center;"><b><font color="#167efb">和孩子一起做家务！</font></b></h1> <h3 style="text-align: center;"><b><font color="#167efb">和孩子一起做手工！</font></b></h3> <h3> 孩子们脸上洋溢的笑容，才是世界上最美丽的风景……</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(47, 47, 47); font-family: -apple-system, "SF UI Text", Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;"> 我始终都相信一句话：</span><span style="font-family: -apple-system, "SF UI Text", Arial, "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei", "WenQuanYi Micro Hei", sans-serif; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal;"><font color="#ed2308"><b>在亲子教育中，你想要孩子成为什么样的人，那么你就去成为那样的人。</b></font></span></h3><h3> 面对疫情作为家长首先要以身作则，做好表率。建议家长要做到<font color="#ed2308"><b>“六不”“六要”</b></font>:</h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"> 不</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">睡</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">懒</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">觉</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">、</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">不</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">恐</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 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8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">、不玩手机、不打游戏、不玩麻将、不外出;</span><br></h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"> 要</span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span 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style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);">及时做好三餐、要按时就寝、要讲卫生、要勤洗手、要勤消毒、要出门做好防护等。</span></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(237, 35, 8);"></span>潜移默化地影响孩子。</h3> <h3> 疫情面前，虽然我们不能奔赴前线作战，但是我们永远是祖国坚强的后备军！现在我们的义务是保护好我们祖国的花朵，培育好祖国的栋梁！帮助祖国度过困难！！中国加油！✊武汉加油！👊</h3>