<h3>2021年8月Nanaimo</h3> <h3>兄妹三人</h3> <h3>1998年的2月14日，周六。在南京市财政局所属会计师事务所工作的我，每天还像往常一样，照常挤着公交车往返于莫愁新寓与鼓楼之间。南京的冬天，那是渗入骨头的冻。大衣遮住了我的腹部，我紧紧地拉住公交车把手，小心地护着肚子里的她，生怕别人把她挤坏。仗着年轻，每天都站着公交车上、下班。</h3> <h3>生她的头天晚上，我吃了几个生冷的北极虾。把肚子给吃坏了。</h3> <h3>几个月大的女儿</h3> <h3>右耳上有个拴财柱</h3> <h3>怎么回事？肚子好疼啊。离预产期还有一周呢？先生不放心，一辆自行车，后座上搭着我，冒着瑟瑟的寒风，摸黑推着我向江苏省人民医院匆匆赶去。</h3> <h3>我们住在南京市新街口南台巷东5号</h3> <h3>南京夫子庙</h3> <h3>南京秦淮河畔</h3> <h3>刻苦学习</h3> <h3>全加2021年十大优秀卓越领导力学生之一</h3> <h3>2021年2月15日 生日</h3> <h3>一进了产科，医生立声说这都快生了。两手空空地留在了医院。</h3> <h3>南京鼓楼广场</h3> <h3>开始学步</h3> <h3>那一年的冬天出奇的冷。寒冷的冬夜里，医院的空调莫名其妙的坏了。空荡荡的产房里，就我一人，拉了一个晚上的肚子，所有的便盘都不够用。</h3> <h3>南京动物园</h3> <h3>南京汉中门广场</h3> <h3>鼓楼广场</h3> <h3>天快亮时，隔壁的产房，传来一阵阵凄厉的哭喊声。没人去搭理那位产妇。护士恶声说，活该。不知过了多久，一阵稀稀疏疏的窃窃的私语声，传入我耳中，护士们正商议把隔壁产房生的女孩送掉，原来她的妈妈是一位未婚少女。孩子的爸爸不知所踪，只有孩子的妈妈一人独自在产房生产。中午时分，我们家的老大也呱呱着地了。2月15日，有两位同年同月生的女孩。</h3> <h3>出国前夕，我与两位姐姐合影，后排站立者为我</h3> <h3>怀抱大女儿的我。出国前夕</h3> <h3>女儿两岁半时，我们全家移民去了加拿大，不知那位和她同年同月生的女孩命运如何？</h3> <h3>像许多新移民一样，我们一下子从有着优渥的生活条件的南京来到了的孤寒的北国。一切从零开始，重新念书、考注册会计师牌。</h3> <h3>我们就把女儿送到日本人开的幼儿园。虽然穿着棉裤，可是那是开档的棉裤，因为没有经验。半年以后才知道，幼儿园不提供早餐。我们家的老大，在又冷又饿中，过了半年。</h3> <h3>五岁</h3> <h3>六岁</h3> <h3>九岁</h3> <h3>卡尔家里的冬天特别漫长，我们常常是冒着星星抱着女儿出门，下班以后接她回家时，也是头顶着星星。</h3> <h3>亏欠了女儿十年。</h3> <h3>弟弟出生的前一年，我们去海南岛度假。她以为我要把她留在中国。一路上惊恐不安，到了温哥华机场后，还是紧张的要死。直到飞机掠过卡尔家里上空的时候，她才舒心地笑了。</h3> <h3>天之涯，海之角。天高任鸟飞，海阔凭鱼跃。妈妈愿陪你去世界上任何一个角落，去领略大自然的鬼斧神功。以后，你拽着我的手。</h3> <h3>这是18岁的女儿，赢得了全加拿大只选6人的RBC的大奖，得了2万加币，去了肯尼亚。</h3> <h3>她十岁时，弟弟出生了，就更顾不上她了。</h3> <h3>家庭服</h3> <h3>2021年2月19日 望着三孩子背影，他们身高全比我高了。一眨眼 ，孩子们长大了。</h3> <h3>姐妹情深</h3> <h3>姐妹俩</h3> <h3>姐弟俩</h3> <h3>17岁 美国俄勒岗州</h3> <h3>三年级，前排左四</h3> <h3>四年级，前排左四</h3> <h3>五年级，还是前排左四</h3> <h3>六年级</h3> <h3>14岁</h3> <h3>16岁</h3> <h3>高中写的小说</h3> <h3>精美的作品。终于明白了，为啥她的牙医入学考试，手工制作是罕见的满分。</h3> <h3>前阵子，翻看旧的视频。画面中10岁的女儿，引着爸爸来到公寓阳台上，打开一个盒子，里面全是她自己做的各种玩具。</h3> <h3>她做的老虎，惟妙惟肖。还不知从何处捡了许多鹅卵石来，就着卵石的形状在上面画各种图案。我还偷偷的珍藏了几块，至今还放在我工作的市政府办公室里。</h3> <h3>2021年六月毕业</h3> <h3>2019年5月1日，年方21的我女儿，终于穿上了白大褂。</h3> <h3>同届同学留影。</h3> <h3>意气风发</h3> <h3>全神贯注给病人补牙的女儿，她长大了。</h3> <h3>秘鲁山区的小病人，免费治疗</h3> <h3>她的文章上杂志了。</h3> <h3>2年拿本科学历</h3> <h3>稀里糊涂 ，我们家老大就长大了。</h3> <h3>我想刚刚移民时的艰辛已经深深地溶在了她的血液里面。有一股不服输的劲，且做任何事尽量尽善尽美。</h3> <h3>还有两周，就是我的大女儿22岁生日了，以此文来庆贺她的22岁生日。我22岁时， 大学毕业。一眨眼，她也快毕业了。</h3> <h3>人生如梦啊。没有留下任何值得回味的有意义的东西，只有三个宝。</h3> <h3>小女儿</h3> <h3>小女儿</h3> <h3>儿子与小女儿</h3> <h3>小女儿</h3> <h3>小女儿与儿子</h3> <h3>漫步纽约街头的小女儿</h3> <h3>儿子</h3> <h3>儿子、我、小女儿</h3> <h3>在多伦多游玩时的儿子</h3> <h3>儿子、我、小女儿摄于2021年11月30日</h3> <p class="ql-block">2022年3月，于温哥华</p> <h3>妹妹，老三</h3> <h3>儿子，老二</h3> <p class="ql-block">儿子</p> <p class="ql-block">儿子</p> <p class="ql-block">小女儿</p> <h3>Tasha Hou, Doctor of Dental Surgery (DDS) Student Class of 2021, is one of 10 full-time diploma and undergraduate students across Canadian post-secondary institutions to be awarded the 3M National Student Fellowship Award.</h3><h3> The 3M National Student Fellowship is the first in Canada to build community among visionary student leaders who demonstrate outstanding leadership and innovation through seeing current needs in higher education or society and implementing change.</h3><h3>Hou completed her Interdisciplinary Leadership Studies program certificate at the Peter Lougheed Leadership College in 2018. As part of her “Stretch Experience” (a 200-hour final project to develop an idea with the support of the faculty), she organized the Women in Dentistry and Mentorship Conference and Workshop.</h3><h3>Her conference was so well-attended and successful that she has expanded this into a recurring, student-run event. Although put on pause because of COVID, Hou has been dedicated to promoting equality among minority groups even before this experience. Along with a fellow DDS classmate, she started a lunch and learn speaker series called WELL (Women's Empowerment Lunch & Learn). WELL is a speaker series intended to: “create a positive support and networking environment for females in the DDS program, and give us some more individualized advice on how to better navigate our future careers.”</h3><h3>Hou was humbled by this recognition and was a bit lost for words. “I really didn’t expect this so the news is still just sinking in.”</h3><h3>Dr. Steve Patterson, Associate Chair, Academic, comments, “We are extremely proud of Tasha. She has fully embraced what this award is about by making the decision to enhance her learning through additional programming like the Peter Lougheed Leadership College while attending dental school, which is no easy feat.” </h3><h3>Contact us</h3><h3>PROGRAMSPATIENT CARECDEDENTRANET</h3><h3>SCHOOL OF DENTISTRY</h3><h3>UNIVERSITY OF ALBERTA</h3><h3>5th Floor Edmonton Clinic Health Academy</h3><h3>Edmonton, Alberta, Canada T6G 1C9</h3><h3>Territorial Acknowledgement</h3><h3>The University of Alberta, its buildings, labs, and research stations are primarily located on the traditional territory of Cree, Blackfoot, Métis, Nakota Sioux, Iroquois, Dene, and Ojibway/Saulteaux/Anishinaabe nations; lands that are now known as part of Treaties 6, 7, and 8 and homeland of the Métis. 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