<h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">学习新事物对于成年人来说，永远不算晚</span></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">但是</span></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">培养孩子勤奋的习惯，关键在于：</span><strong style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">趁早。</strong></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">勤奋是极难培养、极易丢失的能力，需要时时刻刻与人类与生俱来的惰性作斗争，不是东风压倒西风，就是西风压倒东风。</span><br></h3> <h3>如果任由惰性日复一天地滋长，那么在这场交锋中，勤奋很有可能落败。 </h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(118, 146, 60); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多“聪明而不用心”的孩子后来发现，努力原来是一件那么困难的事。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(118, 146, 60); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我从来都没办法专注做一件事很久。直到现在我还没能维持努力的状态，经常偷懒睡懒觉。我开始由衷地敬佩那些一直努力从不放弃的人，我才懂得其实努力也是一种天赋。”</span></h3><div><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></div></li></ul> <h3>"我从来都没办法专注做一件事很久。直到现在我还没能维持努力的状态，经常偷懒睡懒觉。我开始由衷地敬佩那些一直努力从不放弃的人，我才懂得其实努力也是一种天赋。”</h3><h3><br></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3>"我觉得自己只要努力就会取得成绩，但是我从来就没有努力过，因为我根本就不知道怎么努力，根本就不知道努力到底是什么东西。”</h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(118, 146, 60); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">“用心”其实包含了很多的细节、细心、耐心、坚持不懈、抵制诱惑、克服困难，需要一条一条的做好</span><br></h3> <h3>家长光说没用，还需用自身行动去感染孩子。很多家长也从来就没有努过力，他们也根本就不知道怎么努力。</h3> <h3>身教胜于言传，家长需要示范。如果家长自己不努力，将形成一个恶性循环，如果我们这一代还不幡然醒悟，下一代也会如此。 </h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">作家严歌苓从国外回来，能够讲一口流利的英语，有人把这归结为聪明。她却说</span><strong style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">：“聪明是顶靠不住的东西。”</strong><br></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><br></h3><h3>在她看来，一个人最优越的素质是顽强和坚韧。</h3> <h3>只有顽强和坚韧才能如数报偿你所付出的一切：时间，精力，辛苦而枯索的整整一段青春。</h3> <h3>往往更多的家长没有告诉孩子，努力是怎么回事！</h3> <h3>笨鸟先飞，勤能补拙</h3><h3>小孩不懂它的意义，需要你细心的剖解</h3> <h3>世界上聪明的人很多，但是坚持努力了的人确很少</h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="text-shadow: rgb(195, 214, 155) 2px 2px 10px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">对于聪明而不努力的孩子，家长应该教他们读懂这10句话：</span></strong></span></h3><h3><span style="text-shadow: rgb(195, 214, 155) 2px 2px 10px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-size: 15px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></strong></span></h3> <h3>1.如果在勤奋和聪明之间选一个的话，我宁愿你傻。</h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">2.如果你不是天赋异禀，那么勤奋就是你最能依赖的能力，是我们平凡人与天才抗衡的唯一武器。</span><br></h3> <h3>3.世间任何事都可能骗人，但唯有汗水不会骗人。</h3><h3><br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">4.聪明永远不是你的武器，努力才是你最可靠的朋友。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">5.智商决定下限，努力决定上限。</span><br></h3> <h3><br></h3><h3>6.以多数人努力程度之低，根本轮不到拼天赋</h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">7.用勤奋来掩盖自己的聪明。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">8.大智近乎若愚。无勤勉，不聪明。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3>9.这世上最聪明的人是只知道努力的人。<br></h3><h3><br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">。</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;">10.三分天注定，七分靠打拼，爱拼才会赢。</span></h3><h3><span style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></h3> <h3>往往那些“聪明”的人都去干“聪明”的事</h3> <h3>成功的都是最后一直坚持努力的人</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">冰冻三尺，非一日之寒。孩子学习不用心不努力之果，一定有家长教育不称职之因。</span><br></h3> <h3>你不努力为什么要求孩子努力呢</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">该陪孩子做作业的时候，你们在麻将桌上大杀四方，抖音游戏不离手！</span><br></h3> <ul class="list-paddingleft-2" style="padding-left: 2.2em; color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><li style="padding-left: 0px; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; max-width: 100% !important; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127); font-size: 15px;">该培养孩子独立学习能力的时候，你们在街上顾盼生姿</span></h3></li></ul> <h3><br></h3><h3>该关注孩子心理变化的时候，你们在酒场上吆五喝六</h3> <h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">然后，孩子开始不学习了，开始逃课了，开始厌学了。你们就突然觉得，咱家的乖宝宝怎么了？</span><br></h3> <h3>这个时候你想要改变他，容易吗？</h3> <h3>聪明的孩子更需要家长的引导</h3> <h3><br></h3><h3><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Helvetica Neue', 'PingFang SC', 'Hiragino Sans GB', 'Microsoft YaHei UI', 'Microsoft YaHei', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%;">"这孩子特聪明就是学习不用心，他要是认真起来学习成绩肯定好”适合那些自卑的孩子，对于那种有些傲慢的儿童，这种话绝对是一种纵容。</span><br></h3> <h3>聪明是不需要鼓励的，而用心努力才是需要鼓励的习惯和难能可贵的优点</h3> <h3>对于后者，一定要教会他努力有多么重要，用心有多么重要，养成认真的习惯有多么重要，养成优秀的习惯有多么重要。</h3> <h3>以身作则，言传身教。严于律己，家长也应该做到</h3> <h3>在一个学习努力的家庭环境下，他也会自觉的努力，学习接受新事物</h3> <h3>我们要本着一颗“做梦”的心</h3> <h3>敢想，才敢做，才能为之努力奋斗</h3> <h3>狩猎我的白日梦</h3> <h3>加油↖(^ω^)↗，大朋友小朋友</h3> <h3>挂绳手作视频，需要全集的可以私信我💓</h3>