二月的夜

若谷幽兰

<h3>安静的夜晚里,心头如波涛汹涌一波波的各种思绪涌上心头!想着人来世间走这一遭是为了啥!</h3><h3>晚上看过一篇文章,是关于孩子和父母的,小有所养,老有所依!父母历经千辛万苦,呕心沥血的培养孩子有出息,当正真孩子有出息了,最终的结果呢?</h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); word-wrap: break-word !important;">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;有一位台湾母亲,早年丧偶,自己独自赚钱抚养儿子,将儿子抚养成人,又送到美国读书。</span></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">儿子毕业之后留在美国上班赚钱买房子,娶妻生子,建立了美满的家庭。</span><br></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">母亲也快退休了,打算到美国跟儿子一家团圆,享受天伦之乐。于是满怀欣喜的写了一封信给儿子,表达自己的想法。</span><br></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">正当她做好一切准备时,收到了儿子从美国寄来的一封回信,里面还夹着一张3万美元的支票。信上写道:</span><br></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">妈妈,这是我们经过讨论的结果,决定还是不欢迎你来美国同住。</span><br></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">如果你认为你对我们有养育之恩,以市价计算,约为2万多美金,现在我再加一点,寄上一张3万美金的支票给你,希望你以后不要再写信来啰嗦了。</span><br></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">母亲读完这封信之后老泪纵横,苦闷之中遁入佛堂。后来,她想通了,用这笔钱做了一次环游世界的旅行。</span><span style="color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑;">在旅行中,她突然顿悟:</span></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, &quot;Helvetica Neue&quot;, &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, &quot;Hiragino Sans GB&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei UI&quot;, &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(12, 12, 12); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: &quot;Microsoft YaHei&quot;, 微软雅黑; word-wrap: break-word !important;">人间的亲情、友情和爱情都是无根的浮萍,看破放下,缘来缘去,都心无罣碍再无牵挂。</span></strong></span></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font color="#0c0c0c" face="Microsoft YaHei, 微软雅黑"><b>相信这种奇葩子女也屈指可数吧!</b></font></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">自己和孩子关系,自己又和父母的关系</h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">儿时经常听大人说父母的心在儿女身上,儿女的心在石头身上。那时真的不理解,当我自己当了妈妈之后才正真的知道,这句话是很有哲理的的一句话。</h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">父母孕育了生命,给了生命,而生命里流淌着自己的血。尤其妈妈10个月的孕育,知道疼到不知道什么是疼的疼的坚强勇敢下生下自己的骨血!而这点点滴滴汇聚成大海般的亲,</h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子只是借助你的躯体来到了这个世界,还有在他成长的路上你精神的给予和物质的付出。所以他不知道什么是心疼的爱。</h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;">当他(她)有了孩子才能一点一滴体会到父母对自己的爱是有多博大。因为他们疼了才正真的明白。</h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><b>世间万物皆由不知名的人所操控</b></h3><p style="font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; margin: 0em 0.5em; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51); letter-spacing: 0.5440000295639038px; text-align: justify; -webkit-text-size-adjust: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><b>想到以后的以后不免心里有些难过,知道这叫杞人忧天,尤其在寂静的夜里总想安静的想想……</b></h3>