<h3><font color="#333333"><span style="caret-color: rgb(51, 51, 51);"><b> </b></span></font><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">很多时候,我们都在仰望别人的幸福:影视明星们怎么长的那么好看;歌手</span></span><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">们</span></span><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">为何</span></span><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">会</span></span><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">拥</span></span><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">有天使吻过的嗓音;富豪们挥金如土、一掷千金;政客们高高在上、叱咤风云</span></span><span class="s5" style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 24px; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">……</span></span></h3><p class="s6" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 24px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 相比之下,我们是那样的卑微与渺小:</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">既没</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">有天生丽质的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">自带光环,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">也没有</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">上天厚爱的身怀绝技,更</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">没有出生名门望族,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">含着金钥匙长大……</span></span></h3><h3><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> “郁郁涧底松,离离山上苗。”</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">难道我们这一辈子就注定这样自卑自怜、自哀自怨,幸福对于我们来说终将是遥不可及的水中月、镜中花吗?</span></span></h3> <p class="s6" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 24px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 其实《易经》中“一阴一阳谓之道和阴阳互相转换”的智慧早就告诉了我们,世上没有绝对好的事物,也没有绝对不好的事物,任何事物都具有阴阳两面</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,而且好与坏也并非一层不变,而是</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">互相转化:</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">当我们把全部精力都注意到好的、或是光鲜亮丽的表层</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,就会忽视不好的,或是</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">阴暗污浊的里</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">层</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">。同样的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">如果我们把目光一直聚焦在平淡无奇甚至坎坷不平的外面</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,就会很难挖掘出</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">价值连城的珍宝</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">。</span></span></h3><p class="s6" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 24px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"></span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 当我们羡慕影视</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">明星的光芒四射</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,可我们是否联想到他们在</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">拍戏时的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">经历</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">艰难困苦</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">甚至伤痕累累;</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">当我们羡慕商界精英的富豪榜排名,富甲天下,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">我们是否知道他们创业时的辛酸血泪和商场拼杀的残酷无情;我们羡慕政客们的运筹帷幄</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">、建功立业,可我们是否体验过</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">他们</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">所经历</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的血雨腥风、牺牲与隐忍</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">。</span></span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> </span></h3><p class="s6" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 24px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 更可况我们看到的和熟知的,也只是这几位</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">行业的精英和佼佼者,就宛如金字塔的塔尖,有可能</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">在这些竞争激烈的行业</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">中</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,对位于</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">塔底</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">阶层</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的“不成功便成仁”的落败者们</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">和起步者来说</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,很可能连</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">平</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">常人的安稳</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">生活都是奢望。</span></span></h3> <p class="s6" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 24px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 其实,上天是厚爱我们每一个人的,有可能我们在羡慕别人幸福工作生活的同时,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">别人也</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">正在憧憬着我们已拥有的幸福。</span></span></h3><p class="s6" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 24px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"></span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 拿着</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">铁饭碗的羡慕</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">个体从</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">商者的发家致富</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,而</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">个体</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">从商者又羡慕固定工作者的安逸与稳定;当教师的羡慕公务员的政治地位与发展前途,而公务员又羡慕当教师“我的课堂我做主”的自在与单纯;</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">小城市工作者羡慕</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">大城市</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的优渥资源和</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">工作平台</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,而大城市工作者</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">又</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">羡慕小城市的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">轻松惬意、恬静自然……</span></span><span style="line-height: 21.600000381469727px;"> </span></h3><p class="s7" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 32px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 所以,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">没有哪一种工作或生活环境是十全十美的。</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">就像</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">俗话说</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">:人生不如意事十之</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">八九。正因为这样,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">作家林清玄</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">才</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">告诉我们要“常想一二,不思八九。”因为,有了这样的积极的生活态度,常关注我们觉得快乐的事情,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">才是我们</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">经营好自己</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">幸福</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的基础</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">。</span></span></h3><p class="s7" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 32px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 如果,还有人说我不觉得</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,也想不出</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">自己有什么快乐的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">事情,那么</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">我告诉你,能</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">生活在一个国泰民安的国家,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">能出生在一个衣食无忧的和平年代</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">就是我们每个人最大的幸福。看看那些如今还战火纷飞国家的人们</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">家破人亡、流离失所,看看那些非洲</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">贫穷的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">国家</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">里</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">饿的瘦骨嶙峋的孩子们,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">难道,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">你还感觉不到自己</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">拥有莫大</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的幸福吗?</span></span></h3><p class="s7" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 32px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 当然,“常想一二”并不是让我们固步自封,停止不前,而是让我们</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">能</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">正视自己的目前状态,并不断经营和升华自己的幸福。</span></span></h3> <p class="s7" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 32px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 幸福其实也是有层次的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">:第一个层次在物质层面,第二个层次在精神层面,第三个层次在</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">灵性</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">层面</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">。层次越高,你</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">所</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">获得的幸福感更大,你也将越自在、越稳定。</span></span></h3><p class="s7" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 32px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 前段时间网络上很火的复旦大学陈果教授也</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">在</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">告诉我们:</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">“</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">500万有500万的幸福,50块也有50</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">块的幸福。”“</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">幸福不在将来,就在当下。”</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">“人生两件最重要的事情就是:一、让自己活得幸福。二、努力让更多人活的幸福。”</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">所以千万不要将幸福等</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">只</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">同于金钱和名利。</span></span></h3><p class="s7" style="font-family: -webkit-standard; white-space: normal; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); line-height: 21.600000381469727px; text-indent: 32px; text-align: justify; font-size: 18px;"><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;"> 虽然</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">在</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">物</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">质层面</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">人与人有</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">千差万别,但在基本生活有所保障的前提下,丝毫不</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">影响我们去追求更高层次的幸福。</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">比如说</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">通过</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">读</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">书明理,</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">听经典音乐</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">,看优秀影视剧,亲近大自然来怡情养性;通过陪伴家人、相夫教子、孝顺父母来</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">打</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">造</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">家庭</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">的</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">和谐</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">与温馨</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">;或是通过</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; font-size: 16px; font-family: 宋体;"><span class="bumpedFont15" style="line-height: 28.799999237060547px; font-size: 1.5em;">勤奋工作、敬业、奉献来</span></span><span class="s5" style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px; 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