【显峰分享】儿童心性教育的秘密(五)

道山翁

<section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 2px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">在不能关注到心性成长的教育环境下,一个孩子受教育的时间越长,心受到的伤害可能就越重。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">如果您把小学一二年级和大一大二的学生拍一段视频对比,基本就看清楚了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; 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margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-bottom: -3px; padding-top: 3px; max-width: 100%; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(255, 202, 0); width: 244.094px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; height: 5px; line-height: 5px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: left; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 2px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">小时候朝气蓬勃的,后来有的老气横秋。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">小时候积极举手的,后来有的沉默寡言。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">小时候天真淳朴的,后来有的心机叵测。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">小时候自信阳光的,后来有的自卑胆怯。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">小时候乐于助人的,后来有的麻木不仁。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: left; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: 122.047px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: right; font-size: 22px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="padding: 3px; max-width: 100%; width: 5em; height: 5em; display: inline-block; border-radius: 100%; transform: rotate(0deg); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; width: 116.047px; height: 159px; border-radius: 50% 50% 0% 0%; background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/bGWdlpib1LzQSKv91bEZRcEup6SguIFLMMNc5Cia5nNlsXhHJQHPficC3Elte2g3qhdRVTB7NI1pdCXjAleo4qnxw/640?wx_fmt=gif&quot;); background-size: cover; box-shadow: rgb(0, 0, 0) 0px 0px 0px; border: 0px none rgb(62, 62, 62); overflow: hidden; background-position: center center; background-repeat: no-repeat; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section></section><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: 122.047px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-bottom: -3px; padding-top: 3px; max-width: 100%; border-bottom: 1px solid rgb(255, 202, 0); width: 244.094px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; height: 5px; line-height: 5px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: left; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 2px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在不能关注心性成长的环境下,分数象一把刀,很多孩子被割得遍体鳞伤,厌学,自卑、叛逆。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在不能关注心性成长的环境下,父母的期望越大,孩子越痛苦。现象是:父母说都是为了你好,孩子说我不要,我受够了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在不能关注心性成长的环境下,我们不知道孩子真正应该学什么,做什么。为了一本证书,损伤了小树的根脉,顾了当下,却失去了孩子的未来。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: 122.047px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; 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word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span><span style="margin-left: 5px; max-width: 100%; width: 5px; height: 5px; float: left; border-radius: 50%; background-color: rgb(255, 202, 0); word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></section><section style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></section></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: left; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 14px; line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 2px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这</span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">样的故事,每天都在继续。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(10, 1, 1); word-wrap: break-word !important;">孩子们在一天天长大,我们怎么办……</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; width: 24.4062px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-ratio="0.96875" data-src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/bGWdlpib1LzQSKv91bEZRcEup6SguIFLMiawWA340aFaRfEzhKbAibE411tic05z9bJia6aZialPEWx7pibZBrSCWZthA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-type="png" data-w="128" _width="100%" src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/bGWdlpib1LzQSKv91bEZRcEup6SguIFLMiawWA340aFaRfEzhKbAibE411tic05z9bJia6aZialPEWx7pibZBrSCWZthA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1" class="" data-fail="0" style="max-width: 100%; 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text-align: left; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; display: inline-block; width: 100px; height: 100px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; background-image: url(&quot;https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/bGWdlpib1LzQSKv91bEZRcEup6SguIFLMSYPfSev2vVQtZcdEib4pfxR2iaiaGYfxOCXpHSW5DlHQicOyHCqg787k3g/640?wx_fmt=png&quot;); background-size: contain; background-attachment: scroll; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="margin-top: 20px; max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(255, 129, 36); word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">未完</strong></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">待续</strong></h3></section></section></section></section></section></section>