<h3>看过这样一组非官方统计的数据:
每隔三分钟,就有1000人被拉黑。
成年后,我们每天的生活趋向于平淡的两点一线。
越来越窄的交际圈,让我们很难认识新的朋友,因此也更加珍惜每一份情谊。
然而,生活中总有一些人喜欢无端伤害你,用恶意的目光揣测你,让你一次又一次地陷入痛苦之中。
对于这样的人,还有比拉黑更高效率解决问题的方式吗?
蔡康永说过这样一句话:“如果你可以拉黑却不拉黑,就是同意别人伤害你。”
不要跟没有必要的人浪费时间、耗损精力,你可以在心里安装一个开关,从此对他们不再理会。
碰到这3种人,请趁早拉黑,不要纠缠。
01
作家艾小羊说过这样一件事。
一个微胖的女孩,把坐在她对面的女同事拉黑了。<br></h3> <p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">那个女同事有个特点,就是你越不爱听什么,她就越说什么。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“你那么胖,就不要穿浅色了。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“你看谁谁谁都在减肥,你怎么还不减。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">微胖女孩曾经很严肃地对她说:</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“一,我胰岛素高,减肥很难。二,我不在意自己有点胖。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">女同事立刻反驳道:“没有减不下来的肥,只有不够的决心。你肯定也想瘦,就是对自己不狠。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">从那以后,女孩在心里默默地把女同事拉黑了。无论她再说什么话,女孩都主动屏蔽,假装没听见。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">总有这样一群人,自以为见多识广,不管别人背后的苦衷,就急着给人家下定义。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这个世界本身就是多元化的,每个人都有自己的活法,有不同的生活轨迹。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">凭什么用你那浅薄的见识和眼界,随意评价别人呢?</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left-width: 3px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“看你化那么浓的妆,就知道你不是什么好姑娘。”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“看你30岁了还没嫁出去,别是生理或心理上有什么问题吧?”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“看你都工作这么多年了,还穿杂牌,肯定是个穷屌丝。”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“看你微信头像用的是至尊宝,我就看得出你是个渣男。”</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">英国作家威·赫兹里特说过:一切偏见都来源于无知。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">真正有修养的人,懂得尊重别人的不一样,从不对别人的生活指手画脚。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">过好自己就好,何必总对别人指指点点,把尖酸刻薄当作直爽呢?</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">遇到喜欢随意评价别人的人,请尽早拉黑。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; white-space: normal; widows: 2; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"> 02 </span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">之前看过这样一条新闻。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一个姑娘因为觉得性格不合,与男友分手了。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">本以为不合适就好聚好散,没想到男方竟甩出一句:“好吧!那你把钱还给我吧。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">原来,男方仔仔细细地做了一张excel表格,上面详细记录了从恋爱开始到结束,他为这个姑娘的花费开销。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">从1块钱的微信红包,到最贵的36.9元所谓的“迪奥口红”,一张表格算下来,是177元人民币。</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">姑娘二话不说,直接转账给他,想必再也不想和这类人有所瓜葛。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">作家倪匡说过一句话:<strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">带着计算器,不断算计的人,不论男女,都不会有真爱。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">和一些人相处很累的原因,是因为他们总喜欢计较一些蝇头小利,对每一分钱精打细算,对每一次付出都想要有所回报。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">好友萱萱之前和她前男友分手,也是因为无法忍受他的斤斤计较。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">两人约会期间,吃饭、看电影、任何娱乐项目的钱,全部都是AA制。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">甚至连一起去便利店买些小零食,男友都要点开手机自带的计算器算平摊的价格。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">萱萱心塞不已,但还是不断安慰、说服自己:男友只是对钱敏感了些,其他方面还是不错的。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有一次,萱萱在家里发高烧,全身无力,打了个电话给男友。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">男友匆忙赶来,送生病的萱萱去医院就诊、打点滴。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">烧得昏昏沉沉的萱萱,靠在椅背上,刚想对男友说句谢谢,男友犹犹豫豫地开口了:</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“那个......医生给开了些药,加上门诊费和打点滴的钱一共是230块,你看是现在转给我还是?”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">萱萱听到男友这样说,彻底崩溃了,大声吼道:</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“你现在穿的那双AJ鞋,是我省吃俭用存了一个月的钱给你买的,我找你要钱了吗?</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有段时间你天天加班,我每天炖排骨汤送到你公司,我找你要钱了吗?</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">逢年过节我给你爸妈寄去的特产、补品,我找你要钱了吗?</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我掏心掏肺地对你好,现在我生病了,难受得要死,你非得在这个时候跟我算钱算得那么清楚?”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">死心真的只需要一瞬间。那一秒,萱萱在心里把男友拉黑了,只想彻底走出他的全世界。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有些人并不是真的穷,而是心穷。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">精神上的匮乏,让他们的眼里除了鸡毛蒜皮的利益,再也看不到其他。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">太多的算计,只会让一段感情变得面目全非。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">遇到这样心穷的人,请尽早拉黑。</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; white-space: normal; widows: 2; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"> 03 </span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">微博上一位叫“浅姑”的女生,有严重的海鲜过敏。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">有一次她跟几位好友聚餐,因为是A请客,大家就提议想搓一顿好的,去吃海鲜吧。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">A马上说,浅姑海鲜过敏,吃点其他的吧。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">由于聚餐有五个人,浅姑表示不想因为她一人而扫了大家的兴,而且她也可以点其他菜吃。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">于是大家就一起去海鲜饭店,别人吃海鲜,浅姑吃粥和两个小菜。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">中途,浅姑去了一次卫生间,后来的事,都是A转述给她的。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">在她去卫生间的时候,另一个好友B迅速剥了几只虾,撕成块状搅和进浅姑的碗里。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">B说:“海鲜那么好吃,不吃多可惜。她一定是因为减肥才不吃的,我们都不说,等她吃完再告诉她。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">浅姑回来后,边吃粥边和大家聊天,突然觉得舌头发麻,几分钟后开始出现胸闷头晕的症状,接着便不省人事。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">而造成她过敏性休克的罪魁祸首B,到后来也没有真诚地跟她道过歉,还跟别人聊天说:谁知道她真的会过敏到那种程度。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这种人实在是太可怕,把自己的无知当作天真,把别人的痛苦当作矫情。</span></h3> <p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">用他人的生理缺陷来取乐,完全不顾及他人的感受,自私到骨子里。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们常常会听到这样的言论:</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left-width: 3px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“什么酒精过敏,你不喝就是看不起我。”</span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“吃个鸡蛋怎么会过敏呢?我看你就是挑食。大家吃了都没事,你也吃吃看嘛。”</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样的人,没有同理心,无法站在他人的立场上考虑问题。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">卡耐基在《人性的弱点》中写道:“只为自己着想的人是无药可救的,他们是没有教养的人,无论他受过什么样的教育。”</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">一个人的教养中,必须有着为他人着想的善良,知道别人的不易,懂得换位思考。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;">己所不欲,勿施于人;己所欲之,亦勿迫人欲。</strong></span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">遇到不懂换位思考的人,请尽早拉黑。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; white-space: normal; widows: 2; text-align: center; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 18px; word-wrap: break-word !important; background-color: rgb(123, 12, 0);"> 04 </span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">层次越高的人,越喜欢及时止损。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">比起无休无止的争吵、仇恨与耿耿于怀,拉黑,才是远离一个人最好的方式。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">毛姆说过一句话:</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><blockquote style="padding-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; border-left-width: 3px; border-left-style: solid; border-left-color: rgb(219, 219, 219); color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">“每个人在这个陌生而残酷的世界中停留的时间都那么短暂,却还要处心积虑地让自己如此不快乐,实在是很奇怪的事情。”</span></h3></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">学会断舍离,不要和没有必要的人浪费时间、浪费精力。</span></h3><p style="max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; word-wrap: break-word !important;"></h3><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: rgb(120, 114, 114); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; font-variant-ligatures: normal; letter-spacing: 0.544px; orphans: 2; text-align: justify; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(63, 63, 63); font-size: 16px; word-wrap: break-word !important;">拉黑这3种人,还自己的世界一个清净。</span></h3>