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老妈在这的一个月里,我一直很忙,没有时间带她出去逛逛。又因为八十岁的老妈不比从前了,腿脚明显不利索了,走起路来慢慢腾腾,看她走得使劲,可是光看到她迈步,却走不到路。跟她一起走,急性子的我急得冒汗。所以我就只能开车带她去附近海边转转,要走路的地方我怕我没有耐心陪着她走,况且每次还带着两个半大的孩子,我也怕青春期的孩子嫌弃外婆。
"},{"img_height":2132,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/f4e63401dc154926b0a9b9cd7cac73f6__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":1922,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/7780d33448ba4ce69644ca8883e901dd__jpg.heic","img_width":1082},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/6a50a5c0181745169eaebb08b335057c__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":" 到这不几日后,老妈熟悉了新环境,她开始计划种菜。说干就干,我们买了工具,买了菜种,就这样后院成了小菜园。长这么大,我是第一次认真参与种菜,就是为了让老妈觉得她在我这还有事干,不是一无是处。
渐渐的,老妈接手了洗碗的活,又接了洗衣服的活。一盆水,我看到老妈洗衣服总是先洗我的衣服,而我婆婆在这里的时候,洗衣服总是最后一个洗我的衣服,甚至有一次我亲眼看到她洗完抹布才洗我的上衣。看得我毛骨悚然,我从此以后再也不让她洗我的衣服,来不及洗的时候我会把衣服藏得她找不到。
孩子奶奶在老家的时间多,爷爷一直是这里家里的管家,老妈和孩子爷爷姐弟相称,因为他俩本来就是同宗的十四代姐弟,渣渣算起来是我妈的娘家侄子。她和既是弟弟又是亲家的孩子爷爷和平相处,分工协作,这段时间,我一下子从忙得两脚不沾地的主妇变成了食指不沾阳春水的妈宝了!
"},{"img_height":676,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/e9c3968e50eb499299762b05c5fc0f97__jpg.heic","img_width":1200,"text":" 每天下班一回家,我就会先找老妈,一个月来已经成了习惯。儿子晚上补课,我去接的时候已经晚上九点多了,每次老妈都执意坐在车上陪我一起去。
我希望老妈能在这里呆得久一点,她总是说:"还是回去吧,在这帮不了你的忙。还是回老家好,邻居们都熟,在这里语言不通,环境不熟,你上班去了,我一个太也不知道干什么。再说了,七十不留歇,八十不留餐,年纪这么大了,万一病在这里,你一个人怎么承受的起,还是回去吧,毕竟老家还有你两个姐姐一个弟弟,万一我有事,他们也可以互相照应。不是妈咪不管你,你舅舅要是也回老家去了,我看你一个人忙里忙外也不忍心走,哪怕陪陪你也好,可我就在这又没本事帮你接送孩子,还得要你照顾我,"我听得心里很不是滋味,混了半辈子,我连一个老妈也养不起,还得让她为我担心。是老妈当初看中渣渣,她没想到如今的渣渣如此顽劣不负责任,她一直觉得愧对我。母女相对无言,一切尽在不言中。
"},{"img_height":1600,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/095f111b378340449d57b934c35f4be4__jpg.heic","img_width":1200,"text":" 今天一大早,我还没起床,老妈已经起来把她睡的被褥拆洗了,把自己的东西收拾好了。她把菜都浇好水,重新整理了一遍。一上午都在后院里忙,然后交代我怎么合理安排时间,不要睡太晚,开车千万不能打瞌睡,孩子最重要,再忙不要忘了接孩子。女孩怕被拐,男孩怕打架。渣渣忙,就不能指望他接孩子,不能拿孩子赌气⋯⋯
"},{"img_height":1600,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/bccae26c7d9743eb90e88571a3feca90__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":1600,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/504868e2e3064510ba3f36c64cf7ea16__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":676,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/41353ba811b94a75b557e1f58b1f387c__jpg.heic","img_width":1200,"text":" 今天是母亲节,中午请老妈在万达的避风塘吃了午饭,没有说祝福,也没有康乃馨。在万达门口,有免费赠送的康乃馨,本想过去拿一枝,怎奈渣渣在那里不耐烦地吼着快点快点,不想多口舌,算了!
吃饭时,我的嗓子又彻底失声,没有言语,这个母亲节和老妈一起过,一切又尽在不言中。
"},{"img_height":1200,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/06408b6921d54e62801ec6313a2e8780__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":2132,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/b3a928fecf1c48858f680b8d1a8c9deb__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/73a973307e854612af5a33459ef21ab2__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":" 老妈和孩子爷爷一起回的老家,我没让俩孩子去车站送外婆,他俩坚持送到门口,看着外婆上车。我送老妈到火车站,只是挥手告别,她再次叮嘱我要好好的,照顾好自己和孩子,开车千万不能打瞌睡,工作一定要好好干。
看着她蹒跚地走进进站口,没有言语没有洒泪,一切尽在不言中,因为我的嗓子哑,老妈的耳朵聋,交流也变得困难。
"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/a25a8fb97fa247dd8ac304c363c025b7__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":" 回到家里,家里静悄悄的。听不到已经听习惯了的老妈的拖鞋声,老妈住的房间也收拾得空空的。儿子在写作业,我问他:"外婆回去了,家里没有外婆了,你有什么感觉?"儿子说:"外婆给了我200块钱,不让我跟你说,她说让我买吃的。她叫我听你的话,因为你很忙,把你累死了,我们就没人管了。"一直顽劣的儿子说着眼里晶莹起来,我转身出来,关上了他的门,提了水去浇菜。
菜长得很好,本来以为老妈会在这里照顾这些菜,直到它们长到能吃,可是现在这些菜的我来照顾了。看着这些菜,眼前又浮现出老妈弯腰边种菜边唠叨的情景。
父母在,不远游。
儿行千里,永念母亲。
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对于买火车票,我一直犹犹豫豫的,直到昨天才在渣渣厉声的催促中给老妈买了5月13日的车票。
"},{"img_height":2132,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/3426aee3cf9c49ffa95269aa8f1a5403__jpg.heic","img_width":1200,"text":" 老妈在这的一个月里,我一直很忙,没有时间带她出去逛逛。又因为八十岁的老妈不比从前了,腿脚明显不利索了,走起路来慢慢腾腾,看她走得使劲,可是光看到她迈步,却走不到路。跟她一起走,急性子的我急得冒汗。所以我就只能开车带她去附近海边转转,要走路的地方我怕我没有耐心陪着她走,况且每次还带着两个半大的孩子,我也怕青春期的孩子嫌弃外婆。
"},{"img_height":2132,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/f4e63401dc154926b0a9b9cd7cac73f6__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":1922,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/7780d33448ba4ce69644ca8883e901dd__jpg.heic","img_width":1082},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/6a50a5c0181745169eaebb08b335057c__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":" 到这不几日后,老妈熟悉了新环境,她开始计划种菜。说干就干,我们买了工具,买了菜种,就这样后院成了小菜园。长这么大,我是第一次认真参与种菜,就是为了让老妈觉得她在我这还有事干,不是一无是处。
渐渐的,老妈接手了洗碗的活,又接了洗衣服的活。一盆水,我看到老妈洗衣服总是先洗我的衣服,而我婆婆在这里的时候,洗衣服总是最后一个洗我的衣服,甚至有一次我亲眼看到她洗完抹布才洗我的上衣。看得我毛骨悚然,我从此以后再也不让她洗我的衣服,来不及洗的时候我会把衣服藏得她找不到。
孩子奶奶在老家的时间多,爷爷一直是这里家里的管家,老妈和孩子爷爷姐弟相称,因为他俩本来就是同宗的十四代姐弟,渣渣算起来是我妈的娘家侄子。她和既是弟弟又是亲家的孩子爷爷和平相处,分工协作,这段时间,我一下子从忙得两脚不沾地的主妇变成了食指不沾阳春水的妈宝了!
"},{"img_height":676,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/e9c3968e50eb499299762b05c5fc0f97__jpg.heic","img_width":1200,"text":" 每天下班一回家,我就会先找老妈,一个月来已经成了习惯。儿子晚上补课,我去接的时候已经晚上九点多了,每次老妈都执意坐在车上陪我一起去。
我希望老妈能在这里呆得久一点,她总是说:"还是回去吧,在这帮不了你的忙。还是回老家好,邻居们都熟,在这里语言不通,环境不熟,你上班去了,我一个太也不知道干什么。再说了,七十不留歇,八十不留餐,年纪这么大了,万一病在这里,你一个人怎么承受的起,还是回去吧,毕竟老家还有你两个姐姐一个弟弟,万一我有事,他们也可以互相照应。不是妈咪不管你,你舅舅要是也回老家去了,我看你一个人忙里忙外也不忍心走,哪怕陪陪你也好,可我就在这又没本事帮你接送孩子,还得要你照顾我,"我听得心里很不是滋味,混了半辈子,我连一个老妈也养不起,还得让她为我担心。是老妈当初看中渣渣,她没想到如今的渣渣如此顽劣不负责任,她一直觉得愧对我。母女相对无言,一切尽在不言中。
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吃饭时,我的嗓子又彻底失声,没有言语,这个母亲节和老妈一起过,一切又尽在不言中。
"},{"img_height":1200,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/06408b6921d54e62801ec6313a2e8780__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":2132,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/b3a928fecf1c48858f680b8d1a8c9deb__jpg.heic","img_width":1200},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/73a973307e854612af5a33459ef21ab2__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":" 老妈和孩子爷爷一起回的老家,我没让俩孩子去车站送外婆,他俩坚持送到门口,看着外婆上车。我送老妈到火车站,只是挥手告别,她再次叮嘱我要好好的,照顾好自己和孩子,开车千万不能打瞌睡,工作一定要好好干。
看着她蹒跚地走进进站口,没有言语没有洒泪,一切尽在不言中,因为我的嗓子哑,老妈的耳朵聋,交流也变得困难。
"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/30450802/a25a8fb97fa247dd8ac304c363c025b7__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":" 回到家里,家里静悄悄的。听不到已经听习惯了的老妈的拖鞋声,老妈住的房间也收拾得空空的。儿子在写作业,我问他:"外婆回去了,家里没有外婆了,你有什么感觉?"儿子说:"外婆给了我200块钱,不让我跟你说,她说让我买吃的。她叫我听你的话,因为你很忙,把你累死了,我们就没人管了。"一直顽劣的儿子说着眼里晶莹起来,我转身出来,关上了他的门,提了水去浇菜。
菜长得很好,本来以为老妈会在这里照顾这些菜,直到它们长到能吃,可是现在这些菜的我来照顾了。看着这些菜,眼前又浮现出老妈弯腰边种菜边唠叨的情景。
父母在,不远游。
儿行千里,永念母亲。
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