清明小记

应如是

　　无花无酒过清明，兴味萧然似野僧。

 

光阴似箭，工作日历又翻过了一页，一年的365天缩影成了日历上的每一个小格子，能记住的日子越来越少，末了，就剩格子里记录的丁点计划，成行或不成行全都在计划之内，意料之外的惊喜越来越少，临时起意的冲动也所剩无几。

 

 It's terrible to be grown up.

上个清明节回了一趟太原，临时起意，所以来去匆匆。前几天提起来，豆儿说当时都没好好聊，是啊，我也常常遗憾呢，谁知道一年的时间不到，能有这么多的变化。

If，there is an if in life ，but we all know if means or equals to a pity . We must lost something or somebody we loved .You know， that's part of life ，we need to learn to accept both joy and sadness，love and loss at the same time. It's hard , very very hard.

NOW，We talk more about jobs , house,marriage,money etc.We didn't hide our ambition for money any more .we speak it out louldly ,but we are still afraid of speaking love out.We lost the ability to express our true feeling for someone and put it in the deep heart untill we lost .we shut up mouth like a dumb person or pretened nothing had happened .So stupid .

In fact , we have talked more about the past , you always says that we lost more than we got as grown-up ,maybe that's right .

How does the world works , what does make it so ?

we discussed society problems, argued for that what's the most important thing in our life. Everyone makes different choices ,for love,for money,for whatever.we persude us to be fair ,just stand by and watch what's happenning and Never be a narrow-minded short-sighted man. It's their live , we have no right to judge anyone .The only thing we can do is keeping the difference,showing the respect .Or just be a stranger.

So glad to have some friends like you , we can talk about food ,novel ,everything we interest in ,rather than the boring questions like 'Do you have a BF','When will get a marrige' and so on. Do you know that i plan to spend whole day to find you in the APP zhihu , but i quit at last hahaha.

I have booked the train ticket from TJ toTY on the May holiday .During the holiday ,you treat .

It is going to be OK , sometimes we need a little chicken soup. Hoping next talking will not end up with 'Destiny will it so '.

It's cold outside ,so decide to write something .