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孩子的教育不能重来,人生没有回头路,用心理解孩子,用心阅读绘本,用绘本连接孩子的心,让美丽在孩子的童年里绽放,让孩子拥有幸福满足的一生,我带着责任走在路上。用心去做好一个传递爱的花婆婆!
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"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/d6cfd51a94e9479e96905744b8b24ff4__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"家长在家常常给我们回馈什么?_?老师我也想让他好,可是我真管不了。这些事情孩子的心理成因有哪些?孩子焦虑时会啃指甲,甚至有的孩子遇到事了就上厕所。我们的孩子也会有这样的表现。甚至有的孩子可能会撒谎,打人。是什么样的心理原因导致的?0-3岁什么发展起来更重要?安全感和归属感更重要。安全感奠定了孩子的一生。
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是一种让人可以放心、可以舒心、可以
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以放心,可以舒心,可以依靠,可以相
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"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/680b9a6e74034c11baf3f6aec3e4442d__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"当孩子自己已经处于情感受挫的状态,
这时需要我们做的是给予他情感上的支持
先让他从这份受挫的感情中解放出来,等到
情感平复了,再进行教育。
而现实中,很多家长却完全没有意识到,
还继续在孩子的伤口撒盐,继续一次次地扮
演着孩子差评师的角色,到最后孩子就越有
可能朝着差评的方向远去。
很多父母绞尽脑汁为孩子做一切事情,却
在不经意间将努力筑建的安全感一一摧毁
安全感不仅仅是你每天为了孩子做些什么
陪玩、带出去旅行,安全感更多的是在点滴
小事里,在孩子的感情受挫时,你有没有给
予及时的支持和安抚。
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也许,你需要停下来看:
你是不是基于你的想法,你的恐惧,你的焦虑,你的习性来爱的。
这可能就意味着你更爱你的想法,更爱你的恐惧,更爱你的焦虑,更爱你的习性。
爱就是爱,恐惧就是恐惧,焦虑就是焦虑,认为就是认为,一切如是。
我们要学会从一切如是中将爱剥离出来,你的孩子才真正可以接收到“爱”的礼物。
我们一生能够给予孩子的,只有一样,那就是爱!
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孩子,我生他养他,提供给他衣食住行,为
他报兴趣班特色班。我我比谁都爱他。可是你
无数次的否定他,责骂他,以一个成人的角
度去误解他,限制他。
孩子有错误,当然要教育,但教育不等于
教训。每个孩子都是独一无二的存在,需要
父母的肯定、理解、包容、接纳与鼓励。
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也许,你需要停下来看:
你是不是基于你的想法,你的恐惧,你的焦虑,你的习性来爱的。
这可能就意味着你更爱你的想法,更爱你的恐惧,更爱你的焦虑,更爱你的习性。
爱就是爱,恐惧就是恐惧,焦虑就是焦虑,认为就是认为,一切如是。
我们要学会从一切如是中将爱剥离出来,你的孩子才真正可以接收到“爱”的礼物。
我们一生能够给予孩子的,只有一样,那就是爱!
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1.对不起
2.这不是你的错
3.这种事情不会再发生
4.我爱你
5.我为你感到骄傲
6.我永远不会离开你
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出现问题,我们们总是第一时间以非常强势的
态度干预进去,拒绝孩子的情绪,拒绝孩子
的表达,用我们的智慧去“想当然\"地对孩子
表示“理解”。
但在教育界有一句特别著名的话:只有
我们自己才能最了解我们的情绪,孩子也不
例外。
所以当孩子犯错、当孩子情绪不好时
我们第一时间要做的是提醒自己“我不是
他”。不对摔倒的他说“没关系”,不对丢掉心
爱玩具的他说\"大不了再给你买一个\"。
先蹲下来用心倾听他,听他哭声里的伤
心、恐惧、沮丧、愤怒,给他一个拥抱直到
他平静下来,然后再谈论刚刚发生的事情。
我们的陪伴和聆听,我们无条件接纳的
态度,很多时候比口头上的教育意义大得
多
"},{"text":"在很多时候,我们往往认为自己给了孩
子很多的爱,其实孩子对父母的爱更
多、更加无条件;在很多时候,往往不
是父母的爱滋养了孩子,而是孩子的爱
滋养了父母,是孩子那份纯真的爱感召
了我们,给了我们认真觉察自己和继续
成长的源泉和动力!
所以,请谢
谢传递给我们生命的人,也谢谢让我们
有机会给予他(她)生命的我们的孩
子!e
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以放心,可以舒心,可以依靠,可以相
信,孩子是自由的。这样就帮孩子建构了安全感。安全感是一种感觉,
"},{"img_height":1440,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/41409d91db0c4bccb74f84809c51eae0__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"我们所看到或听到的孩子行为问题,是源于他安全感的缺失,是孩子的心理需要未被满足。所以,我们要无条件的接纳孩子,给他安全的环境和教学材料,让孩子感到他是重要的,是好的,是被需要的,被欣赏的,被信任的,值得被爱的,有价值的……
"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/680b9a6e74034c11baf3f6aec3e4442d__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"当孩子自己已经处于情感受挫的状态,
这时需要我们做的是给予他情感上的支持
先让他从这份受挫的感情中解放出来,等到
情感平复了,再进行教育。
而现实中,很多家长却完全没有意识到,
还继续在孩子的伤口撒盐,继续一次次地扮
演着孩子差评师的角色,到最后孩子就越有
可能朝着差评的方向远去。
很多父母绞尽脑汁为孩子做一切事情,却
在不经意间将努力筑建的安全感一一摧毁
安全感不仅仅是你每天为了孩子做些什么
陪玩、带出去旅行,安全感更多的是在点滴
小事里,在孩子的感情受挫时,你有没有给
予及时的支持和安抚。
"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/9a09328bf2134ad7bbeec9662317b1c9__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"情景表演:发火的妈妈!
"},{"img_height":1440,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/4edf71296f6f43a7a83ad27e800eefde__jpg.heic","img_width":1080},{"img_height":1440,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/ced0342af0d94b03ab63c53abee3bf9b__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"你以为你爱孩子,你想象你可以爱孩子,你认为这就是爱孩子,和你真的爱孩子是有差别的。
也许,你需要停下来看:
你是不是基于你的想法,你的恐惧,你的焦虑,你的习性来爱的。
这可能就意味着你更爱你的想法,更爱你的恐惧,更爱你的焦虑,更爱你的习性。
爱就是爱,恐惧就是恐惧,焦虑就是焦虑,认为就是认为,一切如是。
我们要学会从一切如是中将爱剥离出来,你的孩子才真正可以接收到“爱”的礼物。
我们一生能够给予孩子的,只有一样,那就是爱!
"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/418f92ee635f4866968e4e335af9bfa4__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"有人说哪有人不爱自己的孩子?我也很爱
孩子,我生他养他,提供给他衣食住行,为
他报兴趣班特色班。我我比谁都爱他。可是你
无数次的否定他,责骂他,以一个成人的角
度去误解他,限制他。
孩子有错误,当然要教育,但教育不等于
教训。每个孩子都是独一无二的存在,需要
父母的肯定、理解、包容、接纳与鼓励。
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"},{"img_height":1920,"img_url":"https://ss-mpvolc.meipian.me/users/2756010/cfd09d0d650a4fd5a2746a2f2efdcd3d__jpg.heic","img_width":1080,"text":"你以为你爱孩子,你想象你可以爱孩子,你认为这就是爱孩子,和你真的爱孩子是有差别的。
也许,你需要停下来看:
你是不是基于你的想法,你的恐惧,你的焦虑,你的习性来爱的。
这可能就意味着你更爱你的想法,更爱你的恐惧,更爱你的焦虑,更爱你的习性。
爱就是爱,恐惧就是恐惧,焦虑就是焦虑,认为就是认为,一切如是。
我们要学会从一切如是中将爱剥离出来,你的孩子才真正可以接收到“爱”的礼物。
我们一生能够给予孩子的,只有一样,那就是爱!
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1.对不起
2.这不是你的错
3.这种事情不会再发生
4.我爱你
5.我为你感到骄傲
6.我永远不会离开你
"},{"text":"我们做父母总是高估了自己的“聪明”,孩子一旦
出现问题,我们们总是第一时间以非常强势的
态度干预进去,拒绝孩子的情绪,拒绝孩子
的表达,用我们的智慧去“想当然\"地对孩子
表示“理解”。
但在教育界有一句特别著名的话:只有
我们自己才能最了解我们的情绪,孩子也不
例外。
所以当孩子犯错、当孩子情绪不好时
我们第一时间要做的是提醒自己“我不是
他”。不对摔倒的他说“没关系”,不对丢掉心
爱玩具的他说\"大不了再给你买一个\"。
先蹲下来用心倾听他,听他哭声里的伤
心、恐惧、沮丧、愤怒,给他一个拥抱直到
他平静下来,然后再谈论刚刚发生的事情。
我们的陪伴和聆听,我们无条件接纳的
态度,很多时候比口头上的教育意义大得
多
"},{"text":"在很多时候,我们往往认为自己给了孩
子很多的爱,其实孩子对父母的爱更
多、更加无条件;在很多时候,往往不
是父母的爱滋养了孩子,而是孩子的爱
滋养了父母,是孩子那份纯真的爱感召
了我们,给了我们认真觉察自己和继续
成长的源泉和动力!
所以,请谢
谢传递给我们生命的人,也谢谢让我们
有机会给予他(她)生命的我们的孩
子!e
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