<h3>On Children</h3><h3>Your children are not your children.</h3><h3>They are the sons and daughters of Lifes longing for itself.</h3><h3>They come through you but not from you,</h3><h3>And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.</h3><h3>You may give them your love but not your thought</h3><h3>For they have their own thoughts.</h3><h3>You may house their bodies but not their soul</h3><h3>For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,</h3><h3>Which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.</h3><h3>You may strive to be like them,</h3><h3>But seek not to make them like you,</h3><h3>For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.</h3><h3>You are the bows from which your children</h3><h3>As living arrows are sent forth.</h3><h3>The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,</h3><h3>And He bends you with His might,</h3><h3>That His arrows may go swift and far.</h3><h3>Let your bending in the archers hand be for gladness;</h3><h3>For even as He loves the arrow that flies,</h3><h3>So He loves also the bow that is stable</h3> <h3>这几年纪伯伦的这首诗歌不知被我重温了多少遍,</h3><h3>晚饭后,我们在沙发上聊天.</h3><h3>小宝问我:妈妈,你的幸运是什么?</h3><h3>我说:有一群可爱的小朋友被我带着。</h3><h3>他用哀怨的眼神不满意的看着我,我马上改口说:我的幸运就是小宝你呀!他瞬间喜笑颜开的说,妈妈,我也告诉你,我的幸运就是有你这样一个好心又善良,活波又可爱,美丽的妈妈!听到这里,我真的特别感动,我从来没有想过我在宝贝的心中🈶️这么完美!</h3><h3>我们的宝贝是独立的,我们只能给孩子爱,却不能代替他们思想、灵魂的形成。</h3><h3><br></h3> <h3>5岁生日时,和爸爸一起去航展,看到了独立的小宝!</h3><h3>晚上视频时,说:妈妈,你别担心,我自己穿衣服,自己洗澡,自己照顾自己,我跟好爸爸就可以了!</h3><h3>结果直到今天,我看到照片,才发现真的是这样,裤子穿反了一天,自己竟然玩的开心不已!</h3> <h3>我真的不知道裤子穿反在大街上行走了一天,是什么样的感觉!也许,下次,小宝,你可以告诉我</h3> <h3>去青藏高原时和爸爸妈妈一起在青海湖撒欢的你,沿途中迷人的草原,成群的牛羊,在卓尔山欢呼的你,抱起大水瓶狂喝的你.......想想妈妈的幸运确实是你</h3> <h3>关于坚持</h3><h3>下雪的那天,很冷,放学了,我牵着你,宝贝,回家吧!</h3><h3>你说:妈妈,你不知道今天要画画吗?</h3><h3>我说:今天好冷,我们不去了吧!</h3><h3>你说:妈妈,做事情要坚持,不能因为冷我们就不去了,我想去画画!</h3><h3>当时其实妈妈很汗颜!我想你以你的行动告诉了妈妈坚持的意思!妈妈应该向你学习</h3><h3><br></h3><h3>迪斯尼的时候,你发着烧,39度,妈妈真的不知道是什么让你支撑着玩了5个项目,直到闭门,有时候孩子比我们想象的坚强勇敢</h3> <h3>关于孝敬,道歉</h3><h3>某天,奶奶用洗衣机甩了鞋子,我打开洗衣机,跪拜吼叫:为什么拿洗衣机洗鞋子........奶奶委屈的哭了!</h3><h3>小宝一本正经说:妈妈,你快去道歉,你吼人是不对的!你不尊重不孝敬老人!</h3><h3>我说:我不知道怎么道歉!</h3><h3>小宝把我拉到奶奶面前,说:你就说,妈妈,我错了,你快点说快点说</h3><h3>在小宝的鼓励下,和老妈没有过5分钟又和好啦!</h3><h3><br></h3><h3>谢谢你,儿子,是你让妈妈有勇气认错并且道歉!</h3> <h3>很多时候其实爸爸妈妈做的不够好,你总会说,妈妈,你别拿手机,陪我玩!爸爸是不是眼里只有电脑和手机,在这里,我们新年有个约定:</h3><h3>2018年妈妈坚持回家不拿手机,直到你睡觉</h3><h3>爸爸每晚必须陪你游戏至少30分钟</h3><h3>我们三个人一起努力向前走吧!</h3><h3>宝贝,爸爸妈妈爱你😍!</h3>